It’s literally related to sexual attraction. I feel almost nothing until a deep emotional bond is formed and I’m in the relationship. For people saying why make it into a thing? Because it’s helpful to have a label for this. This is not typical. Most people experience sexual attraction outside of people they’re in a deep emotional bond/relationship with. People assume you do too. It’s nice to know for myself that I’m this way, and also to learn more from others. Couldn’t do this without a clearly defined label. That said, it’s not a big part of my identity. It doesn’t really matter that much to me
It's not part of an identity AT ALL! WTF! I'm sorry but everything you said sounds insane. You can't throw a term on something that's normal for many who just don't want to be whores because they enjoy having the real thing
It is one…. I lost count of how many times I’ve seen pictures of a supposed ‘hot guy’ or ‘hot girl’ and felt absolutely nothing because I don’t know the person.
I think Demisexual is different from other sexualities, because it's less of a "who/what youre attracted to" and more of a "how you're attracted to" if that makes sense?
It is a sexuality. It’s not who you’re attracted to though more about how. Non Demisexual people don’t take as long to form romantic bonds but demisexual people can take a very long time
Uhm so I think I’m demisexual but I’m still quite young and it’s pretty hard to tell yk the only crush I’ve ever had was on a childhood friend and we grew up together but then again I also know for a fact that I’m Bi but like people are saying that I just want a bond with someone and like everyone wants to know someone before dating them now I’m confused can anyone help me out💀 I also go to a Christian school so like I can’t even talk to the consoler with other making me feel awkward-
It is a sexuality as it is in the asexual spectrum and it means someone doesn’t experience primary sexual attraction. I like being demisexual but it does make dating hard at times.
I’m a lesbian and I think I may be Demi sexual. I haven’t had crushes until I got to know a person, and sexual attraction was barely present because I never have been in a relationship so I just don’t think of my crushes in that way, out of respect and I just don’t feel that way. Yes I would love to have sex but I’ve never been put in a situation where I’m actively thinking of sex with a person?? I also see people on tv and stuff and think they are hot but that doesn’t mean I “like” them or want to sleep with them. Hope that made sense. Any input?
Because sexual and romantic attraction/feeling in love are different things. Most people would only say they're in love when they have a strong emotional connection with someone. But they can obviously still feel sexual attraction towards someone they don't/barely know. However, demisexual people can legit only feel SEXUAL ATTRACTION for someone they have an emotional bond with. That's the difference.
@@thevibewitch7414 naw. Ppl just wanna put everything in it’s own box and it just makes a mess. You shouldn’t be in any serious relationship unless you have a romantic attraction to them, otherwise you’ll just step out to fill the missing void. This only grows heartache, stress, and confusion because you’ll be jumping from person to person trying to get everything from everyone when everyone isn’t for you.
Why do people who identify as anything other than the classical options, feel the need to make a big deal over what others think or say? Us plain old simple people don’t make issues about your opinions of us. You want to be accepted more, then shut up more. Works for the rest of us. Sorry if that’s blunt and painful, but hey, welcome to the real world.
Maybe the reason you think being normal is not talking about it, is because this mentality right here, and people intentionally don't talk to you about it?
To be fair some people use there Asexueal Spectrum as there sexuality.
It’s literally related to sexual attraction. I feel almost nothing until a deep emotional bond is formed and I’m in the relationship. For people saying why make it into a thing? Because it’s helpful to have a label for this. This is not typical. Most people experience sexual attraction outside of people they’re in a deep emotional bond/relationship with. People assume you do too. It’s nice to know for myself that I’m this way, and also to learn more from others. Couldn’t do this without a clearly defined label. That said, it’s not a big part of my identity. It doesn’t really matter that much to me
It's not part of an identity AT ALL! WTF! I'm sorry but everything you said sounds insane. You can't throw a term on something that's normal for many who just don't want to be whores because they enjoy having the real thing
It is one…. I lost count of how many times I’ve seen pictures of a supposed ‘hot guy’ or ‘hot girl’ and felt absolutely nothing because I don’t know the person.
I think Demisexual is different from other sexualities, because it's less of a "who/what youre attracted to" and more of a "how you're attracted to" if that makes sense?
Yep
Yesss but i dont think its a romantic attraction alone. Its just an actual connection and closeness. It doesnt need romance just a bond
Same thing with the whole bi/pan/omni/poly spectrum
It is a sexuality. It’s not who you’re attracted to though more about how. Non Demisexual people don’t take as long to form romantic bonds but demisexual people can take a very long time
Uhm so I think I’m demisexual but I’m still quite young and it’s pretty hard to tell yk the only crush I’ve ever had was on a childhood friend and we grew up together but then again I also know for a fact that I’m Bi but like people are saying that I just want a bond with someone and like everyone wants to know someone before dating them now I’m confused can anyone help me out💀 I also go to a Christian school so like I can’t even talk to the consoler with other making me feel awkward-
It is a sexuality as it is in the asexual spectrum and it means someone doesn’t experience primary sexual attraction. I like being demisexual but it does make dating hard at times.
I’m a lesbian and I think I may be Demi sexual. I haven’t had crushes until I got to know a person, and sexual attraction was barely present because I never have been in a relationship so I just don’t think of my crushes in that way, out of respect and I just don’t feel that way. Yes I would love to have sex but I’ve never been put in a situation where I’m actively thinking of sex with a person?? I also see people on tv and stuff and think they are hot but that doesn’t mean I “like” them or want to sleep with them. Hope that made sense. Any input?
Not tryna be rude, but isn’t that just straight up loving someone? Why would it need to be a sexuality
Exactly. Ppl just wanna be extra
Because sexual and romantic attraction/feeling in love are different things. Most people would only say they're in love when they have a strong emotional connection with someone. But they can obviously still feel sexual attraction towards someone they don't/barely know.
However, demisexual people can legit only feel SEXUAL ATTRACTION for someone they have an emotional bond with. That's the difference.
yeah… stupid americans
@@thevibewitch7414 naw. Ppl just wanna put everything in it’s own box and it just makes a mess. You shouldn’t be in any serious relationship unless you have a romantic attraction to them, otherwise you’ll just step out to fill the missing void. This only grows heartache, stress, and confusion because you’ll be jumping from person to person trying to get everything from everyone when everyone isn’t for you.
No it isn't
Who cares
I do and also who has asked you? I am an demi-sexual myself.
Why do people who identify as anything other than the classical options, feel the need to make a big deal over what others think or say? Us plain old simple people don’t make issues about your opinions of us. You want to be accepted more, then shut up more. Works for the rest of us. Sorry if that’s blunt and painful, but hey, welcome to the real world.
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Maybe the reason you think being normal is not talking about it, is because this mentality right here, and people intentionally don't talk to you about it?