things I've learned from dating billionaires

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @jacquelinew2396
    @jacquelinew2396 2 месяца назад +1405

    My mom also dated very wealthy affluential people. She was usually in love big time. They’d take her to their banquets where the women were wearing designer clothes. She never asked for anything and they rarely gave. She’d buy her own dress for $30 and look better than the rest because she was gorgeous. Her last rich fiancé bought her a stunning engagement ring. She went in to have it cleaned and they told her it was fake. My mom also saw these same men driving around town with their new, more materialistic women. DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO. Yes, you’ll get rich men, but billionaires and many wealthy men can care less about you. Never try to be the woman who doesn’t expect anything, just serves the man. They will think of you like they do business- you’re a gorgeous girl at a cheap price, it’s a good deal and they will take advantage of it. What use is a billionaire if he ignores your needs? Is he just your ego boost? Sounds ridiculous to me.

    • @RO-vr9qx
      @RO-vr9qx 2 месяца назад +35

      none of this happened

    • @LondonRESPONDE-pm7fi
      @LondonRESPONDE-pm7fi Месяц назад +41

      I agree

    • @primaveraverano1664
      @primaveraverano1664 Месяц назад +2

      THE MOST INTELLIGENT COMMENT HERE!!!👍👍👍
      WHY DATE A RICH MAN WITHOUT EXPECTING HIM TO PROVIDE FINANCIALLY?! I made the same mistakes like your mom, i was genuine, caring about their personality not money, never asked anything. +intelligent with 2 higher educations, 5 foreign languages, beautiful body and face. They enjoyed it a lot, boosted their ego. Later i found out these men were providing with huge amount of money for other MORE MATERIALISTIC women))) And i received a bare minimum. Lesson learned- Never waste your time for free with affluent men☝

    • @JustBeingAwesome
      @JustBeingAwesome Месяц назад +61

      It just tells me your mom is very bad at reading people ;-)

    • @nicolletteramirez
      @nicolletteramirez Месяц назад +7

      🎯💯❤

  • @roamer38
    @roamer38 2 месяца назад +1442

    3000 billionaires world wide with an average age of 67 and less than 300 under the age of 50. Makes me wonder when all these women claim to date billionaires.

    • @Lm90ss
      @Lm90ss 2 месяца назад +351

      And almost 90% of them are already married 😂

    • @SaffariRose
      @SaffariRose 2 месяца назад +184

      Well, in certain countries, 1 million dollars will make you a Billionaire in local currency, so technically, she might not be wrong. Lol

    • @akale2360
      @akale2360 2 месяца назад +87

      Dreaming is free 😁

    • @DarkMatterCurator
      @DarkMatterCurator 2 месяца назад +155

      Cause these are fake vids to get clicks for wannabe gold diggers..lol

    • @Taichientaoyin
      @Taichientaoyin 2 месяца назад +4

      @@SaffariRose looooollll

  • @gabbysramos
    @gabbysramos 2 месяца назад +1538

    I dated a rich guy, and he said he knew I was genuine, and he knew I wasnt with him cause of his money, these guys are SMART. ive also won a big amount of money all at once so I experienced feeling "rich" and it taught me alot of things, how to read people and made me smarter and I learned how to be around people who TRULY care about you and not just for superficial reasons.

    • @umm3766
      @umm3766 2 месяца назад +11

      why not marry a rich guy

    • @crypturilia4568
      @crypturilia4568 2 месяца назад +16

      Bc he was already taken

    • @saltandpepperandmint
      @saltandpepperandmint 2 месяца назад

      @@umm3766it is his choice to propose

    • @nc1975
      @nc1975 2 месяца назад +16

      What she is saying is not true. I mean honestly, what does a hermes bag cost? It's really nothing. Ask all you want and if you are worth it, you can get as many as they are willing to sell you.

    • @KimberlyFederico-v5m
      @KimberlyFederico-v5m 2 месяца назад

      What to say to you I did not understand. #nidhikapoor

  • @moonarium57
    @moonarium57 Месяц назад +275

    Yall trust me when I say this -- usually billionaires are around OTHER billionaires or multi-millionaire, they're not around "people trying to take their money", that might be true for nouveaux riches self made millionaires but the reality is that all billionaires are old money! So no, you won't "stand out" by trying to "make them save money" lmao I guarantee you they're not trying to save money, do you have any idea what one single billion represents, yet alone multiple billions?? The average millionaire is closer to zero than to one billion. So if you meet a so-called billionaire who's greedy then they're just not an actual billionaire in most cases. Billionaires are completly disconnected from our reality, they don't even know how much a water bottle costs lol

    • @annasz9314
      @annasz9314 Месяц назад +9

      THANK YOU

    • @missblessedasmr
      @missblessedasmr Месяц назад +14

      It’s not entirely true. I have also met many millionaires and they really are stingy lol. Sometimes paying 20$ more for any job they want done is tooooooooooo much for them. HAHAHA

    • @moonarium57
      @moonarium57 Месяц назад +19

      @@missblessedasmr I’m talking about billionaires not millionaires

    • @Don_Turbulento76
      @Don_Turbulento76 Месяц назад +15

      @@moonarium57 You can be absolutely sure, that Bezos, Branson and Musk know how much a bottle of water cost.
      It´s the rich kids, with a few millions from daddy, who don´t.

    • @moonarium57
      @moonarium57 Месяц назад +7

      @@Don_Turbulento76 No they don’t ☠️ They genuinely don’t. They maybe knew that 30 years ago but not anymore. And either way I assure you your typical billionaire isn’t a tech CEO (whose billions are their business’ net worth and not exactly their personal fortune anyway)

  • @atuendoantiguo7328
    @atuendoantiguo7328 2 месяца назад +410

    These advices are the bare minimum when it comes to be a good person, regardless who you are dating.

    • @yiweilee2715
      @yiweilee2715 2 месяца назад +21

      ya exactly! isn't being kind being a human? it doesn't matter who you're dating..

    • @MMartyMM7
      @MMartyMM7 2 месяца назад +2

      Oh god,yes,thank you for your comment that may make others look into the mirror.

    • @rafaelvilas4230
      @rafaelvilas4230 Месяц назад +6

      When a woman loves a man, she always do this thing and postures. Its natural. Its not for bilionaries, its for all men you love.

    • @Didii1337
      @Didii1337 Месяц назад

      exactly

    • @gülşekeri
      @gülşekeri Месяц назад +1

      Best comment.

  • @victoria256r
    @victoria256r Месяц назад +1309

    Have you ever noticed how someone like Nastya just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!

    • @evarossi6
      @evarossi6 Месяц назад +1

      I totally agree with you!

    • @Marie-s6g
      @Marie-s6g Месяц назад +2

      I actually finished that book 2 weeks ago. Tactics are crazy good. I like it so much. Would also really recommend it!

    • @Kim-z6i3l
      @Kim-z6i3l Месяц назад

      Thanks

    • @Kim-z6i3l
      @Kim-z6i3l Месяц назад

      im checking that out now

    • @digdemsahin7151
      @digdemsahin7151 Месяц назад

      Thats the e-book right?

  • @PremSteve-yg4de
    @PremSteve-yg4de Месяц назад +679

    This video on billionaires really got me thinking! It’s crazy how much their mindset aligns with investing. Staying calm during chaos, knowing when to hold on, and resisting the urge to react impulsively-those are key in both love and finance. Who knew that dating could teach us so much about patience and discipline? It’s a wild ride, but I’m here for it

    • @samuelrandy-k8x
      @samuelrandy-k8x Месяц назад +6

      Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time .

    • @PennyBernadette
      @PennyBernadette Месяц назад +2

      Until the Fed clamps down even further I think we're going to see hysteria due to rampant inflation. If you are in cross roads or need sincere advise on the best moves to take now with financial markets will be best you seek a fin-professional with fiduciary responsibilities who knows about mortgage-backed securities for proper guidance.

    • @MarcyLoccy
      @MarcyLoccy Месяц назад +1

      Could you possibly recommend a CFA you've consulted with?

    • @PennyBernadette
      @PennyBernadette Месяц назад +1

      There are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’Rebecca Nassar Dunne” and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

    • @NorthCarolinaForward
      @NorthCarolinaForward Месяц назад +1

      Thanks for this. Found her and looked through her credentials before contacting her. Once again many thanks.

  • @callieelliesociety
    @callieelliesociety 2 месяца назад +162

    This video is more about cultivating self worth and substance than dating a billionaire. It hits on creating value, which is what everyone wants, a billionaire, too. It also touches on the traps and games and power plays that some wealthy men play. Also, mental health. Learn to love yourself and heal from your traumas, fears and self doubt. Great video. Thank you.

    • @sstefanova
      @sstefanova 20 дней назад

      Great Video, indeed! ❤I share that perspective 😊

  • @nanomia
    @nanomia Месяц назад +136

    to be honest let's stop romanticizing rich men let's start focusing on our own success and money a rich man won't save you no one will save you only YOU can save yourself you know what's more dangerous than a dusty? a rich man who have all the money and power to control you and trap you

    • @MsTishalish
      @MsTishalish Месяц назад +6

      Bingo 🎯

    • @missblessedasmr
      @missblessedasmr Месяц назад

      Yea most of them are old pedophiles. If they are 50 with a 21 year old.

    • @burressjj1
      @burressjj1 Месяц назад +3

      Yes! Thank you!

    • @studytime-qb9bx
      @studytime-qb9bx Месяц назад +2

      While many wealthy men are in happy marriages, and most don’t seek to control their partners, it’s important to focus on creating balanced and respectful relationships. It’s not just about money but about mutual respect and personal autonomy. Rather than worrying about extremes, we should all aim for relationships that empower both partners to thrive.

    • @Lisa-sg1of
      @Lisa-sg1of Месяц назад +2

      FINALLY! *A woman with sense!* Thank you!

  • @kashalyam7071
    @kashalyam7071 2 месяца назад +936

    Hey guys I see a lot of negative comments on here .. but what I got out of this video was a a very positive message .. she is basically saying to get to know who you are first and align to the highest version of yourself then it truly doesn’t matter who is next to you .. billionaire or not .. cause your energy is filled with such a magnetic aura that it just doesn’t matter anymore ! Thanks for this positive message ❤️

    • @Tionaintown876
      @Tionaintown876 2 месяца назад +12

      Yes!!

    • @ChihiroOh
      @ChihiroOh 2 месяца назад +25

      If it doesn't matter who is next to you... then why is she only dating billionaires? 🤷

    • @kashalyam7071
      @kashalyam7071 2 месяца назад +7

      @@ChihiroOh everyone is a “billionaire” they just don’t know it yet 😜

    • @giulias.5104
      @giulias.5104 2 месяца назад +18

      @@kashalyam7071 yet she also stated at the beginning that she only dated billionaires? 🤔

    • @kashalyam7071
      @kashalyam7071 2 месяца назад +4

      @@giulias.5104 it’s all good everyone has a “type” but the main point is to take good care of yourself 🥰

  • @Z.999se
    @Z.999se 2 месяца назад +1708

    There are very few billionaires and even fewer who are single. Stop the cap

    • @Ttt-x6g
      @Ttt-x6g 2 месяца назад +119

      this applies to normal men too!!!

    • @Lm90ss
      @Lm90ss 2 месяца назад +47

      Exactly

    • @nanaildar91
      @nanaildar91 2 месяца назад +170

      There are many billionaires (even one billionaire counts) and no they don't need to be single to date a beauty:) too powerful to be loyal 😂

    • @Lm90ss
      @Lm90ss 2 месяца назад +104

      @@nanaildar91 Only 756 in the U.S., 14% of them women and the rest mostly married men.

    • @Lm90ss
      @Lm90ss 2 месяца назад +186

      ​@@nanaildar91 Smart girls don't waste their prime, fertile years with a man without a commitment to marriage.

  • @mariachiaranegri5583
    @mariachiaranegri5583 2 месяца назад +342

    Chatgpt tells me there are like 90 billionares under the age of 40 in the whole world. And I assume many of them are already in relationships. Honestly, I don't believe these claims like "I only dated billionares" from like, normal people

    • @cutebasooma
      @cutebasooma 2 месяца назад +30

      If you go to where rich people go and you're an attractive woman, you'll find it much easier to mingle with them

    • @etizzei1
      @etizzei1 2 месяца назад +66

      bro if it was women that look like prime Adriana Lima or something it might be believable like if you were a top model 0.1% in looks and successful yourself... but random 6/10s dating billionaires just lmfao like what are we even talking about man

    •  2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@etizzei1 true

    • @lyannastark3839
      @lyannastark3839 2 месяца назад +48

      She slept with some rich guys and most likely none of them where that rich. She says dated but you should read slept.

    • @leob8450
      @leob8450 Месяц назад

      Ignorance is a choice

  • @uberbabe585
    @uberbabe585 Месяц назад +421

    You've dated billionaires as much as I've landed on a moon.

  • @louisar4227
    @louisar4227 Месяц назад +21

    I’ve never dated a billionaire, but I did date one that had a net worth about 500 million (so pretty much the same in terms of lifestyle) and while the lifestyle is great, there is alot that comes with the territory of dating a very wealthy man that did not appeal to me. For one, very powerful men tend to be on the controlling side and your always going to have to cater to their schedule and timeline, they also have alot of obligations and time for you can take an back burner. I’m glad I didn’t end up with that one. My current partner is a dentist, and while he’s not super rich, he doesn’t have a Type A personality (we are much more compatible), and lifestyle is much freer. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. It might be cliche but “money can’t buy you happiness” is the truth. compatibility cannot be controlled, and the likelihood that you’re going be compatible with one of the few billionaires out there, well, it’s not that likely 🤷🏻‍♀️. we all have to live and learn though.

  • @so-emabdullah3980
    @so-emabdullah3980 28 дней назад +14

    1. be honest and always stay humble regarding their money
    2. be kind to everyone
    3. become a woman at peace
    4. never lose desire to grow and learn
    5. know your boundaries (ability to stand up for yourself)

  • @rosenruffles
    @rosenruffles 2 месяца назад +347

    Sweetie, marry one and then we will take notes.

  • @irinasp3723
    @irinasp3723 2 месяца назад +619

    Once I dated a rich man, I truly loved him and never expected any benefits from him. He said he felt good when beside me. He never bought me anything, but flowers 😂 Some men are just greedy regardless their wealth

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 2 месяца назад +88

      He isn't rich because a miser is always empty inside. He might as well be a bum on the street.

    • @irinasp3723
      @irinasp3723 2 месяца назад +10

      @@jessicahitchens6926 well your video was about money people 😁

    • @shiningstar6470
      @shiningstar6470 2 месяца назад +122

      It’s crazy how men would pay for escort or for se* but are stingy towards a woman that genuinely cares or loves them . I really can’t understand that

    • @Parakeet-e8v
      @Parakeet-e8v 2 месяца назад +29

      @@shiningstar6470 yea exactly and in the video shes saying that they dont have to owe women anything etc but then dont expect anything from a woman as well whether its doing work like at home or intimacy

    • @shiningstar6470
      @shiningstar6470 2 месяца назад +12

      @@Parakeet-e8v nobody owes anyone anything but it’s a natural thing to show affection that way. It’s one of the love languages. Him having sex with u doesn’t mean anything. He was just horny

  • @cronu3
    @cronu3 2 месяца назад +324

    It’s funny how rich people want someone for their soul, yet they all care about money. Isn’t it hypocritical of them to judge you because you like the life style they’re offering. The key factor here is to give them something they don’t have, and use something they have so it’s a fair exchange. But later they will go for someone with money,because money is their #1 choice.

    • @ΠανωραίαΚόκκινου-ι4σ
      @ΠανωραίαΚόκκινου-ι4σ 2 месяца назад +16

      I have seen that...yeap

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 2 месяца назад +10

      THIS

    • @melawieeinapfel8594
      @melawieeinapfel8594 2 месяца назад +41

      Exactly!! To me personally, I have figuered out that it actually is about avoiding a true relationship with actual co-dependence. They like to give to people that don‘t need it and deny it people who need what they have and ask for it openly, like they want a woman that doesn‘t need their money and give her more but they deny women that openly need something who could provide for them. Basically they want un-conditional love like for a child despite being adults.

    • @InnahKostova-yg9es
      @InnahKostova-yg9es 2 месяца назад +23

      The moment you generalize, you have lost the argument. And “rich people are bad"/"the rich only care about money" is not the reality, it is a subjective interpretation of an internalized fear of inadequacy. This is the the truth. The truth is, there are all sorts of people - many rich people are good. Many poor people are bad/lazy/jealous and ironically, care more about money than rich people.

    • @cronu3
      @cronu3 2 месяца назад +10

      @@InnahKostova-yg9es never said bad or good , it’s the motivation behind each person’s actions. I never said rich are bad or rich are good. I said person with money who is motivated by money.

  • @annazlataric5145
    @annazlataric5145 Месяц назад +82

    I only saw 3 minutes of your video and have a question to you. So you only date billionaires. No one asked you to marry?? 🤔 who are you to them ??

    • @valersmutko9632
      @valersmutko9632 Месяц назад +8

      😬

    • @NelaV-n7i
      @NelaV-n7i Месяц назад +8

      This is the sad irony of her video.

    • @NanoTh-ff6bu
      @NanoTh-ff6bu Месяц назад +4

      Only broke girl run to marry anyone😂

    • @izzy4575
      @izzy4575 Месяц назад +6

      Maybe those “billionaires” were married millionaires

    • @zsuzsanna888
      @zsuzsanna888 12 дней назад +5

      Escort

  • @DinaStrange
    @DinaStrange Месяц назад +37

    What's the point of dating a rich man if you don't use his money. Its like dating a pretty girl u cannot touch. What nonsense.

    • @m.t6299
      @m.t6299 Месяц назад +6

      To brag about it later.

    • @kimkhamis6420
      @kimkhamis6420 Месяц назад +9

      A good man will spend for you no matter rich or poor. I dated a rich man. He asked me if I wanted to go for coffee and we went and later I heard he complained about me not paying for my coffee. How he wasn't even embarrassed to complain to someone else about it is beyond me.

    • @tarag7292
      @tarag7292 Месяц назад +9

      Exactly. Men value beauty and youth while women value stability (generally).
      Unless the man isn't shallow, then I see it as a fair exchange that a wealthy man who wants a beautiful woman must realize that comes with a cost.
      I say this because I see dudes who feel entitled to be with and xes young beautiful women by still want to hold her to some sort of moral standards that he doesn't hold himself to. It's like you both together for shallow reasons, so stop fooling yourself.
      I am not saying that I like this with this, but knowing this exchange, I can't blame a woman for leaving a wealthy guy who won't spend on her. Not saying he needs to be a completely spendthrift, but if he's a multi millionaire or multi billionaire and he is really tightfisted, then I can't blame the girl for leaving.

    • @DinaStrange
      @DinaStrange Месяц назад

      @@tarag7292 i had left a wealthy man who won't spend on me. He still wanted to touch me, yet won't spend anything. Come on. He was 30 years older and playing games, LOL. He is still single and looking for 35 year old, while he is 70, who won't task him for anything and just loves him. Why isn't he dating women of his OWN age though? For love, not beauty or youth.

    • @Butterflieslove2
      @Butterflieslove2 27 дней назад

      😂😂😂

  • @pochernyai
    @pochernyai 2 месяца назад +194

    how can you be ambitious, driven, building something and calm, not stressed and peaceful to be around at the same time? genuinely wondering

    • @gabriellabrito8134
      @gabriellabrito8134 2 месяца назад +29

      They want a dream.

    • @pochernyai
      @pochernyai 2 месяца назад

      @@gabriellabrito8134I wish I could be that person, and not be on a verge of nervous breakdown from working 24/7 lol

    • @redefinedliving5974
      @redefinedliving5974 2 месяца назад +15

      This is me. You described me to a T. 😂 I am not yet a billionaire but people like this do exist. It's called mania and depressive episodes 😂

    • @Handleitt1
      @Handleitt1 2 месяца назад +11

      God gave us a special skill that is revealed when the time is ripe. He did not give is the spirit of fear, but the spirit of power, love, and a sound mind. The world and satan can throw their stones, but that’s a detour to where God calls us. Like Esther who is humble and leans on God in the hardest of times when she had no control on her own life decisions yet she saved many lives by submitting to where God placed her. We can change so many lives by simply being loving and kind to a stranger. Trust His process. God always makes a way. Give your stress and tears to the Lord,pray, and believe he is working. We also have at least 2 angels assigned to us so we can command them to work on our behalf.

    • @andreanicolepackard
      @andreanicolepackard 2 месяца назад +14

      You don't have to stress out to feel motivated to create big things. I'm building a business empowering women to prepare for birth without fear - this is a huge dream of mine and has been for a long time, but I show up each day and calmly put pieces in place so I can serve with impact. It's about mindset.

  • @pandaface1237
    @pandaface1237 2 месяца назад +181

    My ex fiancé was a multimillionaire and all your points are spot on … they were things I’ve noticed and learned in my relationship too.

    • @tresjolieme81
      @tresjolieme81 2 месяца назад +29

      Why didn't it make it to marriage may I ask?

    • @91pinklipstick
      @91pinklipstick 2 месяца назад +8

      Was? Lol what happened

    • @sezelle
      @sezelle 2 месяца назад +10

      i need some tea on this one

    • @Clockthat_tea4
      @Clockthat_tea4 2 месяца назад +7

      @@tresjolieme81right like why you couldn’t keep him at home😂? Why would someone listen to anything you have to say🙄girl bye

    • @InnahKostova-yg9es
      @InnahKostova-yg9es 2 месяца назад +36

      @@Clockthat_tea4 Imagine being rich doesn't suffice. Imagine the girl above was looking for other qualities and/or better match. Envy doesn't look good on you.

  • @СалимаАлмазбекова
    @СалимаАлмазбекова 2 месяца назад +197

    Honey, were you dating or serving those men? Everything you’ve said has the goal of satisfying the man and trying to keep him with you. Find the right one and you’ll not need to play all these “be peaceful with him because he is stressed” games.

    • @a.3761
      @a.3761 2 месяца назад +14

      Tell me you didn't watch the video without telling me -_-

    • @shreya7080
      @shreya7080 2 месяца назад +22

      Fr that point threw me off. It's a two way street, a partner regardless of gender or economic status should make you feel at ease. Weird of her to bring up succesful women and how they stay peaceful and then turn around and say "if the man is succesful he is allowed to be stressed" lol

    • @Minimeowzilla
      @Minimeowzilla 2 месяца назад +18

      ya the entire video is basically "how to twist and contort myself to make rich men like me." low value much? and I guess dating rich men is something to brag about and then say don't expect anything from them and they don't have to provide for their ladies lmao

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад

      As a man, I pity your husband/boyfriend. This woman in the video tells you exactly what men look for in a woman. And your narcissistic self can’t see the wisdom in it. You have been trained to be the opposite of what men desire in a woman.

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад +6

      As a man, I pity your husband/boyfriend. This woman in the video tells you exactly what men look for in a woman. And your narcissistic self can’t see the wisdom in it. You have been trained to be the opposite of what men desire in a woman. Loving someone makes you want to make the other happy and serve them.

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 Месяц назад +27

    Well, i expect appreciation for my time, regardless of wether he's a billionaire or not. I'm not hyper materialistic, but i do give hints here abd there and sometimes straight up ask. It has always worked for me and i won't change that. I also don't care if a person is a president, ceo or regular Joe, i will let you know at all times what i think and feel. I don't lower my standards and morals for anybody. I'm not only beautiful, i'm very intelligent, open to learning more and am very aware of the game of life and how people operate. This message is for women who still believe that you can manipulate a man into liking or loving you. You don't have to be mean but please do voice your needs and expectations. If he's true, he'll stay. A good man will study and ask how he can make your life easier.

  • @Karina-f4z7m
    @Karina-f4z7m Месяц назад +18

    My richest clients in (high class) escorting always negotiated the most and about ridiculous small amounts of money like taxi cost. Whereas the lower income guys were the most generous. Of course there are exceptions in both groups but this has been the general trend. Most of the time I was happy to have a loving and caring family/partner and a medium amount of money instead of being a billionaire or a billionaires wife. Money can set you free and reduce stress/worries/anxietey...until it is too much money. Then it is the opposite.

  • @HappySourPuppy14
    @HappySourPuppy14 2 месяца назад +213

    Also a lot of these powerful men are extremely lonely so being that person that they can talk to and laugh with can mean more to them than you know

    • @RosslynR
      @RosslynR 2 месяца назад

      They have wives and they're in relationships. MOST OF THEM BUILT THEIR WEALTH WITH THOSE WIVES, WHEN THEIR WIVES LOVED THEM WHEN THEY HAD NOTHING. THEY HAVE KIDS WITH THESE WIVES AND SOME HAVE GRANDKIDS! THOSE WITH SECURE RELATIONSHIPS, AS IN GIRLFRIENDS MAKE BABIES TO AVOID HIGH TAXES. I'm in the investment finance industry to know that no wealthy man is lonely, we investment bankers are the people who secure their loved ones safety nets or else they wouldn't be millionaires and billionaires as high-income tax earners for long. MONEY DON'T GROW ON TREES FOR THEM TO BE MILLIONAIRES AND BILLIONAIRES, they need responsibilities to secure their net worth, wives and children are their financial safety nets. They pay therapists if they want to talk. What they want from attractive young girls is what's between their legs, like an expensive cuisine, they like tasting and paying for it.

    • @MaybejustNarbe
      @MaybejustNarbe Месяц назад +7

      Yes!! They are so lonely

    • @girlcalledmango
      @girlcalledmango Месяц назад +5

      Who cares.

    • @esvedra2419
      @esvedra2419 26 дней назад

      That's how courtizanes were trained too

  • @silverkitty2503
    @silverkitty2503 2 месяца назад +164

    what is the point of being with a rich guy if you cant take their money?? i can get a nice guy anywhere .. if i have to be financially independant .. why bother with a rich guy?? it seems like double the work for nothing?? I dont get what the benefit for ME is?? rich men are not better men at all unless they give me something other men dont.. they are NOT the prize they are my bad luck .. just being honest. if a rich man expects ME little old ME to protect his money etc .. fuck that .. if he isnt going to make my life easier .. bye.. i can get a better looking nicer guy who has a normal income and be happier.. im not going to work to be the best version of myself just to be with a man .. the best guy for you accepts you as you are.

    • @oreoakalaperoji8314
      @oreoakalaperoji8314 2 месяца назад +26

      Lol I shouldn't be laughing but damn! yall are so damaged.

    • @thesevenkingswelove9554
      @thesevenkingswelove9554 2 месяца назад +36

      Honestly theres no point in dating men at all. Even if hes giving you money its at a price, and if at the end of the day i need to earn my own money so that this rich guy doesn't leave me for a young girl, or that maybe in bad situations hes business fail, or he ends up dying fast etc. Then whats the point? Its almost as if dating an average guy. No money no honey

    • @kooberrie
      @kooberrie 2 месяца назад +8

      real

    • @umm3766
      @umm3766 2 месяца назад +17

      what rich guy would want a narc woman around him to waste his money

    • @Ichigo-dh9rd
      @Ichigo-dh9rd 2 месяца назад +30

      yeah same. I’d rather date a nice loyal guy around my age bracket who has a normal income and wants to lead a normal life.

  • @merlene_k
    @merlene_k 2 месяца назад +174

    I thought you were going to give advice thats specifically about dating billionaires but this is very general advice that applies to every man in every socio economic class

    • @CinemaDoll137
      @CinemaDoll137 2 месяца назад +34

      thanks for saving me 13 minutes

    • @jennyrosa553
      @jennyrosa553 2 месяца назад

      @@CinemaDoll137you should watch if you have time. The information she gave are super precious and it will help you in the long run with your self confidence. ❤

    • @Doedling
      @Doedling 2 месяца назад +3

      *person

    • @suzanneblaylock9598
      @suzanneblaylock9598 Месяц назад +9

      She wants everyone to know she has 'dated' very wealthy men. Ego trip.

  • @priscilaagui6963
    @priscilaagui6963 Месяц назад +75

    This is a scam, she just want high end brands promo

    • @CRYPTOGUYRY
      @CRYPTOGUYRY 3 дня назад

      lmao that doesn't make it a scam. Thats called a hidden motive. Which is totally allowed.

    • @priscilaagui6963
      @priscilaagui6963 3 дня назад

      @CRYPTOGUYRY thanks for your comment!

    • @CRYPTOGUYRY
      @CRYPTOGUYRY 3 дня назад

      ​@@priscilaagui6963 My pleasure. Thank you as well Miss. Good day

  • @axymoulm
    @axymoulm Месяц назад +33

    0:24 - I didn't watch the video further than to that statement but I wonder: Does any man or woman with common sense really assume that a billionaire man has no more expectations on a woman other than to look good? Even a broke man knows that the beauty of a woman doesn't tell much about her other qualities.

    • @sabinerachtler8305
      @sabinerachtler8305 Месяц назад

      you were born yesterday? Men go ONLY for looks.If you pretend to be smart that's a good skill to have. But looks are #1 don't ever listen to a man telling you otherwise since that will be a lie.

  • @mariaaaa1128
    @mariaaaa1128 2 месяца назад +114

    U had me at the first half lmao, western modern dating has become so weird and demeaning to women cuz of pickmes like this.. If you're with with a rich man, and he loves u why not spoil u any man in his right mind who appreciate his woman would love to give her the world.

    • @Parakeet-e8v
      @Parakeet-e8v 2 месяца назад +7

      well if the guy is not spoiling [in a right meaning] the girl then he shouldnt expect anything from her as well like intimacy etc

    • @nanomia
      @nanomia Месяц назад +13

      right?? what's the point of dating an old billionaire (cause let's one honest most billionaires are old af) if he doesn't spoil you and take care of you? like wtf?

    • @exchangAscribe
      @exchangAscribe Месяц назад +2

      @@nanomia im pretty sure all billionaires in existence are older, except maybe a few that were spontaneously lucky.

  • @Halasubliminal
    @Halasubliminal 2 месяца назад +107

    I have watched so many videos on similar topics, but something always felt off or superficial. But *your* words touched my soul in a way I can’t describe. You remind me of what true confidence and kindness look like. Unlike many influencers who push manipulative tactics and losing our essence as women, you remind us that being ourselves is enough-kindness, confidence, and authenticity are our true power. I felt so emotional listening to you, and for the first time in a long while, I felt precious, confident, and seen. Thank you for being a light and for spreading wisdom with such a genuine heart. I appreciate you so much, and I truly wish you the best in everything. ❤️

    • @nastyaswanmind
      @nastyaswanmind  2 месяца назад +10

      Thank u so much🥹💗

    • @eminahadzic1823
      @eminahadzic1823 Месяц назад

      ​@@nastyaswanmindwhy none of the married you and second did you date for real or u were escort. I am asking bxz not everybody is a sheep

  • @dashunchik8420
    @dashunchik8420 2 месяца назад +61

    You live in a different universe. Elon Musk is a billionaire. How does everything you told apply to him? I like the type of woman you described but men do not need them. The more money a man has, the more spoiled the woman he wants.

    • @nox1788
      @nox1788 2 месяца назад +27

      She just never dated billionaires 😂 the advice she gives is like my mom used to tell me when I was 15 😂

    • @sabri1913
      @sabri1913 Месяц назад +1

      @@jenniferbrown3782I find her classically beautiful

    • @mementomori1022
      @mementomori1022 10 дней назад

      Elon Musk is not the only billionaire, and he’s not available. You’re not a billionaire, so you wouldn’t know what one wants.

  • @maryamkhan1019
    @maryamkhan1019 Месяц назад +18

    what I take from this is nothing because it sounds like a headache to improve yourself for the sake of a man who owes you nothing even with billions.

    • @nanomia
      @nanomia Месяц назад +7

      for real lol like at this point I'll be the rich man

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад

      You are mistaken. This is not just for billionaires. All men look for these qualities in a woman for marriage. It’s just really sad that women have become so low and corrupted that they are opposite to these qualities. This used to be the standard for most women.

    • @maryamkhan1019
      @maryamkhan1019 Месяц назад

      "Women have become so low and corrupted" meanwhile I'm literally laying in bed watching youtube

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад

      @@maryamkhan1019 2 completely nonsensical responses. RUclips is a video platform, so what? You don't need to be a billionaire to be moral, intelligent or have common sense. You are low and corrupted because you are the opposite of what a good woman is. A good woman is sacrificial not a gold digging, transactional narcissist. You should improve yourself out of love for your (future) husband, not for money or gifts.

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад +1

      @@maryamkhan1019 Btw, not all her advice was sound. Even her advice was corrupted with feminist poison. You should actually be very dependant on each other, that's what makes a great marriage that lasts. And no, you as a woman should not be materially ambitious like a man, you should be ambitious about kids and family. Succes is different between men and women.

  • @GoodWill-d2w
    @GoodWill-d2w Месяц назад +79

    To young girls.Unless she is married with a rich man deeply in love with her, don't believe her.
    You can check in long history, were there any insta influencers had a stable marriage with a rich man?
    What you need to do is work hard, study, then go to school with future rich men, date them and find one really gets along with. A lot of them are smart and a lot of them are from rich family. That's it. Be their equal, care more of their character instead of their money.

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад +4

      Don’t compete with them. Add value to their life as a woman can do, but don’t think you must become the men you want to marry, because that will repel good men.

    • @GoodWill-d2w
      @GoodWill-d2w Месяц назад +8

      @@williamwallace410didn’t mean to compete with them, but Financial independence is important .

    • @yemisiaderuku2902
      @yemisiaderuku2902 Месяц назад +3

      Character over chemistry indeed

    • @yuriy5376
      @yuriy5376 Месяц назад +2

      "Go to the rich kid school anf find a man who has rich parents"..."Be their equal"...lol, how did even fit these two things in a single statement 😂

    • @GoodWill-d2w
      @GoodWill-d2w Месяц назад +1

      @@yuriy5376 Not Rich kids school but there are certain colleges most of the kids are from pretty good family. Be there equal means you are as smart as them.

  • @britjj5126
    @britjj5126 2 месяца назад +80

    1:54 a married is obligated to provide for his wife and children. He owes them financial support to his best ability and protection.

    • @nicolletteramirez
      @nicolletteramirez Месяц назад +5

      And there are a ton that don’t do that but find ways not to pay.

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад +3

      No, he doesn’t. He doesn’t owe them luxury. He must provide and protect for their survival, but not to spoil them to the point that they become rotten.

    • @crash42modder63
      @crash42modder63 Месяц назад +1

      financial support is not berkin bags, jimmy chu shoes and penthouses.

    • @ptgsdr589
      @ptgsdr589 Месяц назад +5

      The comment I was looking for. She talks like being provided for is a priveledge when it is actually his duty if he is couting you. This woman doesn't think like a wife, she thinks like a girlfriend who is trying too hard to please, impress and not appear like too much trouble to the billionaire man who she percieves to be the prize in the relationship, why they will always just see heras girlfriend and not wife. This video just prove that pichmeishaness is not reserved for the lower class but alive and well even among upper circles.

    • @ymc7496
      @ymc7496 Месяц назад

      The best way to catch a rich man is to be successful yourself.

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist 2 месяца назад +84

    I appreciate this video. Nastya is not entirely wrong but, in my experience, it's way more complicated than this. I've worked with a decent amount of millionaires and billionaires in New York when their health was not good. All I can say is that this is a very complicated, cut throat type of world. It's far more difficult to navigate than most people will ever understand.

    • @goddessglow6996
      @goddessglow6996 2 месяца назад +1

      Can you elaborate?

    • @thepragmatist
      @thepragmatist 2 месяца назад

      @@goddessglow6996 I’ll be discussing this topic on my channel, but not for a while.

    • @thepragmatist
      @thepragmatist 2 месяца назад

      @@goddessglow6996 I’m tired of people being drawn in by this stuff and not understanding how it really works.

  • @IngeAmos
    @IngeAmos 2 месяца назад +165

    I have to say out of all the videos I have seen about dating affluent men this one I truly appreciate this the most! The fact that you consistently emphasise that women should have a successful and ambitious life for themselves and that you should be educated and independent is so important, because you're not teaching women to be dependent and reliant on men to be able to live a luxurious or even comfortable lifestyle.
    I also loved that you started off by stating your appearance should be the least interesting things about you and there should be intellectual depth to you and you need to be grounded yourself. You're really reminding us that we're more than our appearance. Thank you for mentioning "setting boundaries", as women we feel that if the man is wealthy or if he can provide then we are obligated to relax our boundaries and just give ourselves over because he is giving you everything.
    Love this video. 10/10 Nastya!

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад +2

      She is wrong for that. She gave great points, but still toxic feminists lies were slipped in . Do no focus on masculine success. Success for a woman should be measured in being how great of a mother / wife she is. And for the love of God, do not think you need to be independent. If you want a lasting marriage, be very dependent on each other. It’s what makes you matter to each other.

    • @IngeAmos
      @IngeAmos Месяц назад +1

      @@williamwallace410 absolutely but those are natural developed qualities and you need to be a working woman in this day and age because life is expensive. I believe once you become married then you can promise motherhood and being a wife since you can't do that when you're single (if that makes sense). Myself for example I know I want to be a godly wife and mother but because I'm singe I am still a godly working independent woman, but I can accomplish being a godly wife and motherhood when I become one

    • @femfiore
      @femfiore Месяц назад

      @@williamwallace410I don't know if you're a man or not, but if you're a man what do you think as a man is the way to make him know I am a great mother and wife if we didn't get married yet and didn't have children..? I can't show these values and advantages of me until we get married.. so what's your advice?

  • @jaybirdie.0777
    @jaybirdie.0777 День назад +1

    The experience of convincing someone to invest and then facing a loss reminds us that failure is often a stepping stone to greater opportunities and growth.

  • @ginger182
    @ginger182 2 месяца назад +16

    Since when is dating multiple men an accomplishment? I could somehow understand how being married can be treated as an accomplishment, because at least the man is committing to you. But again, having been married and divorced multiple times is also a questionable achievement…

  • @Nat.Hoshino
    @Nat.Hoshino 2 месяца назад +56

    I once dated a very rich guy but the unkind and rude person was himself. So I stopped seing him, sad but real

    • @michellemdelara9117
      @michellemdelara9117 2 месяца назад +3

      There are tons of them out there but also magnificent mega-rich men..of course, no need to emphasize they are rare as diamonds and competition is insane around them.

    • @ErnestkhalimovErnestkhalimov
      @ErnestkhalimovErnestkhalimov Месяц назад

      Golddigger

  • @AidanVeritasTheAmazingDeist
    @AidanVeritasTheAmazingDeist 2 месяца назад +119

    As a man I agree with the last line.
    I think loyalty and true love and matching core values are important.
    There are more important things than money. If you don’t have those in place, it’s like a luxury car without wheels or a steering wheel.

    • @marcbee1234
      @marcbee1234 2 месяца назад +6

      Here's a short list of what's more important than money:
      Health
      Love
      Respect

  • @bologneseprince
    @bologneseprince Месяц назад +83

    i was rooting so hard for you but this is the ultimate boss level pick me girl. I'm saying this as a girl in her 20s in manhattan who also dates wealthy men. The whole video was "I'm not like other women. I'm better." But the advice you're giving is like emma chamberlain podcast vibes (shallow revelations but to you they seem revolutionary).

    • @jonebize13
      @jonebize13 Месяц назад +10

      Yeah that's the vibe I got too after 30 seconds

    • @jonebize13
      @jonebize13 Месяц назад +2

      If a chick is high IQ and decent to good looking in NYC this stuff is not exotic

    • @maehmoodreza8260
      @maehmoodreza8260 Месяц назад +7

      Wow what an interesting point of view you two have towards her content. Sounds like, if you’d actually applied any of her advice, you’d both hate less. Good luck with such snooty and quick judgement.
      I thought everything she had to say was sound and very on point, and I’m a guy.
      You girls should learn to stick together and not go out of your way to try and point out each other’s flaws, as that in itself is ‘pick me’ behavior.

    • @salut6554
      @salut6554 Месяц назад +7

      @@maehmoodreza8260 she is her competition cause they both date rich men so she couldn't just pass by. and the fact that all she heard was "I'm not like other women. I'm better" means that she does feel inferior to her and the other one is actually better lol.

    • @kayxangelz
      @kayxangelz Месяц назад

      ​@@jonebize13huh?

  • @Cristian_M_
    @Cristian_M_ Месяц назад +28

    You work for 40yrs to have $1M in your
    retirement, meanwhile some people are putting just $10K in a meme coin from just a few months ago and now they are multimillionaires.

    • @thylda7877
      @thylda7877 Месяц назад +1

      I want to compliment you, you have said it all. I am a little business owner and I really want to expand my business to the next level by making myself an investor but I really don't know how to go about it..

    • @dustireller3953
      @dustireller3953 Месяц назад

      imagine investing in Btcoin earlier.... You could have been a multi millionaire precently

    • @clydeorlan2615
      @clydeorlan2615 Месяц назад

      ​@@dustireller3953 You are right. Been thinking of going into gold and cyptocurrency

    • @Muchen218
      @Muchen218 Месяц назад

      Assets that can make you rich
      *FX
      *Btcoin
      *Stocks
      *Gold
      *Real estate

    • @aaronferrell3129
      @aaronferrell3129 Месяц назад +1

      You’re right but a lot of people remain poor due to ignorance

  • @robicarm
    @robicarm 2 месяца назад +145

    The biggest turn off for me is to hear men mention they have money, and complain about their ex's. It makes me think that is all they have to offer and they are emotionally unavailable in relationships in general.

    • @romancetips365
      @romancetips365 2 месяца назад +3

      Once a married millionaire tried to hit on me and another girl and it was just so disgusting. He put his arm around me and I pushed it off. He also invited me to his house and I heard from friends that his house was a huge mansion. I told him to find someone else to invite.

    • @thaivangreenfield3004
      @thaivangreenfield3004 Месяц назад +1

      Truth

    • @MaybejustNarbe
      @MaybejustNarbe Месяц назад

      That’s bragging, in their language. They feel good that they could do it, they aren’t complaining, they’re gloating.

    • @itsmagnator
      @itsmagnator Месяц назад +2

      I doubt you ever dated a multi millionaire, maybe some guy doing great and trying to pass as a very rich man at best. Rich powerful men usually will never tell you they're rich because they don't need to, you can see it clear as crystal they have a lot of money, their cars, houses, etc... not a single word is needed about it and neither they complain about their ex's because most of times they were the ones that dumped their good girlfriends. My past girlfriends were great to me and I have nothing to complain about them, I just didn't see a marriage in the future as they did so I decided to stop wasting their time and broke up with them for their own good.
      By the way I think only LOSERS complain about their ex's because a relationship is a choice and it's dumb to complain about your own choices. If somebody tells me how bad their ex was I instantly say something like "so why you wasted so much time with them? It's free world, you should not complain about your choices but learn from them and not repeat it but if you do, the real problem is probably you and your poor choices that you keep repeating it!".

  • @klp7620
    @klp7620 2 месяца назад +63

    If u aren’t interested in money, clout, status, then why do u only date billionaires? Wouldn’t a well intentioned professional be enough? I think you’re pretty transparent, you’re not in line with your intentions.

    • @jamilyc.3602
      @jamilyc.3602 2 месяца назад +15

      Why wouldn't she?
      If you're not only interested in looks, why do u keep trying to conquer the prettiest girl in the room
      Men want the best for them but again a woman can't do the same🙄 spare me

    • @klp7620
      @klp7620 2 месяца назад +8

      @@jamilyc.3602 it makes no sense

    • @chrism6764
      @chrism6764 2 месяца назад

      ​@@jamilyc.3602I don't think your argument works the way you think it does. Men trying to conquer the most beautiful women is purely for the sex and admiration of their buddies. That's the male equivalent of women chasing money. Both are superficial.

    • @ductanle2806
      @ductanle2806 2 месяца назад +7

      Yeah inconsistent bullsht

  • @fidgetykoala
    @fidgetykoala 2 месяца назад +75

    I don't know about the US, but....I'm from Turin (Italy) I have a working class background, but I went to school with the upper class and aristocracy. I can name drop, but I won't, however if you search most influential companies in Turin you will be able to understand to whom I'm referring to. Since I was a pre teen I witnessed a specific phenomenon, namely this specific social stratum aims at entering relationships with people from the exact same circle. I had a classmate and she was truly beautiful BUT she didn't come from their same background. I witnessed the same thing in the UK, let's assume you are an outrageously beautiful waitress, a guy who is in finance or even studying at top unis will never and I repeat never take the mentioned waitress seriously. On the other hand, self made people want to see you are hustling your way through building up a career, they don't want someone scrounging off their hard earned money. Let's now examine other Nordic countries and again you will notice that those men (especially in their prime) are not going to be your walking ATMs, especially because northern European women are oftentimes proud of their independence. So culturally speaking you will be off the chart. I think that the desire to marry off a wealthy person based on the women attraction rate, might occur in certain areas of Italy, and possibly the US. However, all those craps are ridiculous, in fact beauty depreciates with time and you will find yourself being on the fence, always guarded because there is plenty of younger fishes out there. Hence get a grip.

    • @erikw.418
      @erikw.418 2 месяца назад +15

      In the US people are increasingly unlikely to date and marry outside of their own social class. Marrying outside your wealth bracket is unlikely if you are poor and rare if you are rich.

    • @fidgetykoala
      @fidgetykoala 2 месяца назад

      @@erikw.418 understandably so, I shared what I witnessed throughout the years in different regions to debunk all those gold diggers and their messages. It's much better to invest in some sort of education, having a good attitude and knowing how to run a household...again beauty depreciates over time plus you are confirming that one's social class plays a part in the dating value market (even in the US).

    • @quietreader4190
      @quietreader4190 2 месяца назад +6

      @@erikw.418 I think in the US, most date in their social class and try and date above as well. The problem lies in the fact most of those in the lower social class looking to date upwards don't put in the work to better themselves or further themselves when trying to date wealthier individuals and they have the gall to go on social media and say they will only date guys with a 6+ figure salary. Meanwhile they are obese (and most wealthy people find it unattractive and unhealthy), and who knows what kind of mental illnesses they have going on.

    • @leticiastar30
      @leticiastar30 2 месяца назад +12

      I agree with you. All my uncles that happen to be rich, are married to women that come from already rich backgrounds, are extremely successful in their career or come from the same workfield...

    • @javier.alvarez764
      @javier.alvarez764 2 месяца назад +11

      Rich people date rich not because of discrimination but because that's their area of circle. Can you see yourself dating a celebrity? First you need to be under their radar and for that to happen you need to be in the area under their vicinity. Second reason why you should date your social class not because of somekind of classism, caste system, but because different levels of people offer things differently. Same reason why a middle class wouldn't date a beggar, rich class won't date a middle class or lower class cause those class under them would expect to solve their financial problems instead of solving it themselves. Rich people want to keep their wealth.

  • @gabim3093
    @gabim3093 2 месяца назад +10

    I tried to be the peace and I was for a while, even when he cheated.
    When I needed him when I was pregnant, he wasn’t there. He still wanted me to be his peace when I didn’t have one.
    I am a 7 year yogi. College educated. Track runner since highschool. Learned Buddhist practices. None of this helped in this situation.
    An angel cannot live in hell.

    • @Lisa-sg1of
      @Lisa-sg1of Месяц назад

      Lol 😂.

    • @sissyrayself7508
      @sissyrayself7508 28 дней назад

      But the angels that forsook their first estate ( habitation).. Their orriginal forms disregarded..they rebelled and fell..and hell is what shall hold them.

  • @markoracic5602
    @markoracic5602 Месяц назад +29

    Didn’t realise Billionaires had such low standards.

  • @KT-ni4lq
    @KT-ni4lq Месяц назад +9

    giving advice and ending it with "they will never let you go" when all you've dated is billionaires and they all let you go....

  • @Sassymassy1
    @Sassymassy1 2 месяца назад +40

    Nice! But let’s start thinking more from the women side. What should men do to win over a woman.

    • @falk0nas
      @falk0nas Месяц назад

      Strong, smart, caring, funny, wealthy, respected, tall, brave.

  • @nilooizadnia3658
    @nilooizadnia3658 2 месяца назад +6

    1) if you have to save money then why did you only date billionaires?
    2) I don't have to cook or clean either but it's kinda expected, same goes for men and providing specially the ones who have that kind of expectation
    3) why are you dating men who are so busy to spend time with you so he can make money but he doesn't even wanna spend on you as a sign of appreciation to your patience?!! Isn't that being unkind yo yourself? Very contradictory!
    Wealthy men are not easy to be with! There are normal men out there who are way easier to be with. This world is not black and white, there is a gray too which is normal men with normal income. Nothing wrong with that.
    You can only be with a billionaire if you truly love them. If you can take away the status will you still love them?

  • @marcbee1234
    @marcbee1234 2 месяца назад +41

    Most difficult part of my job working for a wealthy person was managing his girlfriends, never letting them know about the others and he always had at least six.

    • @Z5Z5Z5
      @Z5Z5Z5 Месяц назад +1

      😭😭😭

    • @_justhaley
      @_justhaley Месяц назад

      Lmao what do you work in ?

  • @piepieph
    @piepieph Месяц назад +9

    I love that you say that being kind is a skill! That's such a beautiful way of looking at it. Because then being kind is something you can practice and get better at every day.

  • @erickortizfranco
    @erickortizfranco Месяц назад +39

    She makes really good points, but where are the billionaires now in her life? Why didn't she get married with one of them? Could it be that in the end she got pumped and dumped by all those billionaires? And now that she is older she doesn't qualify to be with any of them? What happened???

  • @justliving83
    @justliving83 2 месяца назад +18

    So why are you still single? Were you attracted the wrong billionaires?

  • @raysunshine1987
    @raysunshine1987 2 месяца назад +53

    ''live laugh love'' basically. got it.
    I'm sorry but all rich men I've gone on dates with where huge megalomaniac narcissists... some of them smart, yes. I'd say mainly ambitious and educated, more than smart. but it takes a special kind of (bad) man to suceed in this society. I'm not saying all of them are horrible, sure. Just most of them. Not sure you know what you're talking about.

    • @nicolletteramirez
      @nicolletteramirez Месяц назад +1

      🎯💯❤

    • @Butterflieslove2
      @Butterflieslove2 27 дней назад

      1000% She is a kid, clearly doesn’t know what she is saying but eventually will pay the price for this stupidity.

  • @kelly851
    @kelly851 2 месяца назад +7

    Finally an authentic video. This pulled up in my feed as i was looking for classic style inspiration. I am a widow married 30 years to my high school sweetheart.
    The key to us was authenticity, communication and acceptance. Kindness is important as it promotes peace and love. We supported one another as we grew,we laughed at our flaws and always held hands. Your heart is a beacon to your true character. If it is open and tender then so will your relationship. If it is one sided ,angry and selfish then so will your relationship. Speak kindly and kindness will chase you! Never linger in the dark always find a solution to whatever life dishes out. I had a beautiful and successful marriage beause of this and more.
    Your video was wonderful and thank you for the genle reminders to all of us who seek more meaningful and thoughtful relationships.💞🙏🏻🙂

  • @Iamanillusion1
    @Iamanillusion1 2 месяца назад +54

    Your single and none of them married you so your an escort

    • @30guarino
      @30guarino 2 месяца назад +9

      you're*

    • @jkw6196
      @jkw6196 14 дней назад

      and you are a sour grape 😂

  • @Chahlie
    @Chahlie Месяц назад +9

    Be kind and make your own money. pretty much it. Took me over 50 years to learn this, and to learn how easy it is to make money with the right mindset. You are in control of your life ladies!

  • @amandamadaci7797
    @amandamadaci7797 2 месяца назад +31

    I clicked on this video not because I want to date but because I wanted to hear you out and I don't regret it at all it was a pleasure

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee 2 месяца назад +27

    Ive got all the qualities you mention yet i am invisible to wealthy men because i lack physical beauty and when you are physically not beautiful you won't get noticed and you won't get into the door.

    • @Alex-bl8uh
      @Alex-bl8uh 2 месяца назад +1

      As a dude I would like to think so, but obama has shown otherwise. ☠

    • @britjj5126
      @britjj5126 2 месяца назад

      @Alex-bl8uh Obama was not wealthy when he met Michelle nor was he at the top of his game. She was actually above him, position wise when he started at the law firm she was at. She helped him build what he has- his family, his career and he probably would not be where he is if it wasn't for her.

    • @jay.jay.
      @jay.jay. Месяц назад +3

      That's why become yourself rich (if you want to)

    • @femfiore
      @femfiore Месяц назад

      @@Alex-bl8uhobama married his old ex-male friend ☠️ they're different because they new each other for a long time ago

    • @Alex-bl8uh
      @Alex-bl8uh Месяц назад

      @femfiore yes so that's the lesson. This might be a good strategy ;)
      But honestly even when he may have been not so wealthy I just can't understand his choice but whatever🤷‍♂️^^

  • @anikinada
    @anikinada 2 месяца назад +24

    The only thing I don’t understand is why everyone is looking for a billionaire. Message is wrong. Nothing is given for free. You have to pay everywhere. Dating a billionaire- you will have to pay

    • @nanomia
      @nanomia Месяц назад +1

      the women who advocates for dating millionaires and billionaires and have "dated" them know this but they conceal it they are not gonna say online what they did to get him to "spoil" her like maybe escorting? or something similar you know I mean if that's what they want whatever but some women don't like this and young girls who are listening to them think they can just be flown out to places for free someone needs to explain to them there's no free lunch especially with rich men

    • @underated17
      @underated17 Месяц назад

      @NM68971 Love and the memories I have will never be bought. You cannot buy that.

    • @VanessaV1111
      @VanessaV1111 Месяц назад

      You most certainly pay with broke & broken ones too

  • @VONpeach3310
    @VONpeach3310 2 месяца назад +29

    You say that these Men don't owe Woman anything, then go off listing everything Woman should do for Men. 😂

    • @Parakeet-e8v
      @Parakeet-e8v 2 месяца назад +8

      yea exactly men shouldnt expect anything from a woman as well whether its doing house works or intimacy
      i hate how these women take sides of men which makes the other women suffer

    • @nanomia
      @nanomia Месяц назад +7

      real she's like trying so hard to be picked by old billionaires

    • @Parakeet-e8v
      @Parakeet-e8v Месяц назад

      @@nanomia some women are just idiots and becuz of them the other women are judged wrongly smh

    • @tarag7292
      @tarag7292 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@Parakeet-e8v Exactly. A wealthy man wants a woman for her beauty, youth, and xes. So yes you should expect something in return. The problem is that these wealthy men want to only put the moral expectation on the women while he keeps his entitlement, no matter how depraved, towards the woman or women he wants.
      Not all, but a lot of these men aren't keeping you around if you don't look good. They expect from you while they expect you not to expect from them because that's wrong.

    • @Parakeet-e8v
      @Parakeet-e8v Месяц назад +2

      @@tarag7292 agreed

  • @LALA-fy8ng
    @LALA-fy8ng 2 месяца назад +22

    yes girl, I was thinking also about this: at the end we all are human beings and everything in this life is possible babe. well said!!!

  • @ariya2040
    @ariya2040 2 месяца назад +6

    even if this wasn’t true, she said things that are important even if you’re single and want to remain single. Being kind to everyone, stand up for yourself, not caring only about superficial things, is always a thing that you should do. That’s what matters.

    • @akale2360
      @akale2360 2 месяца назад +1

      What she says are basic things, a matter of common sense.

  • @Frosty-273
    @Frosty-273 Месяц назад +6

    So true. People that look down apon others regardless of weath, status, or judgement truely are the poorest in the world. Being nice to everyone is gods gift ❤

  • @salmaa3022
    @salmaa3022 2 месяца назад +7

    "That's not a woman.. that's a diamond." Love this

  • @perpetual_happiness
    @perpetual_happiness 2 месяца назад +28

    Knowing all of this I wonder why your previous relationships didn't work out

    • @nastyaswanmind
      @nastyaswanmind  2 месяца назад +11

      People sometimes don’t match, you know?

    • @marcbee1234
      @marcbee1234 2 месяца назад +8

      @@nastyaswanmind If you're authentic and I'm not saying you are or are not, why don't you do a video letting us know:
      How many billionaires have you been with?
      How long were you with them?
      Why did it not work out?
      That would be a great reveal!!! I like what you did in this video but from the comment section you left some of us wanting more.

    • @perpetual_happiness
      @perpetual_happiness Месяц назад +1

      @nastyaswanmind I'm not coming for you though lmao just genuinely curious, sorry if it came across as rude

    • @yemisiaderuku2902
      @yemisiaderuku2902 Месяц назад

      ​@@marcbee1234I think it's important to consider Divine timing and who's actually meant for you
      Lots to demystify
      Best wishes and good luck to everyone

  • @Jeniffer61867
    @Jeniffer61867 2 месяца назад +32

    Do you have any proof you dated billionaires?? And dating and getting married are not the same thing. Sorry but I can't play along

  • @BeatsBeauty
    @BeatsBeauty 2 месяца назад +8

    I agree when you said our bodies know better than us. The anxiety thing is real. Don’t ignore that ever. Stay aligned to yourself ❤

  • @luana4386
    @luana4386 День назад

    Girl...Im Brazilian and i found your chanel today...and im so in love with your ideas, some hours and you give so many insights! Thank you, i will stay here :)

  • @Cree_Gist
    @Cree_Gist 2 месяца назад +7

    You’re so pretty and you seem very kind and intelligent. This is good advice regardless of whether you’re dating a billionaire. I never use men for money and I believe using men for money is sad. This video has good advice about just being a well-rounded woman in general. I also agree with being kind to others because it’s important to have a kind heart in a world where it’s rare sometimes.

  • @zoizamani1678
    @zoizamani1678 2 месяца назад +27

    it's... ridiculous to think you're ridiculously beautiful! Far from it...
    If the billionaires you've dated are over 60 , short and bold then, yes in comparison you're...kind of pretty, tops!

    • @francesckaringgg
      @francesckaringgg 2 месяца назад +7

      harsh but real

    • @vperez2598
      @vperez2598 Месяц назад

      I think she’s gorgeous. I’ve seen more average looking women date millionaires. Not sure what they prefer of course since I’m not a man who is a millionaire

  • @ep-79
    @ep-79 Месяц назад +19

    So you’re calling yourself ridiculously beautiful?? 😂😂😂

    • @madjunir
      @madjunir Месяц назад +8

      Probably A 7 on a good day but 10 in delusion.

    • @azlondon
      @azlondon Месяц назад +1

      @@madjunirAbsolutely!! She’s truly nothing special.

    • @Jamie-b8j
      @Jamie-b8j Месяц назад +7

      I was thinking the same thing.... she looks rather average looking to me

    • @zuanzett2692
      @zuanzett2692 22 дня назад +1

      I can’t believe the comments here. She is beautiful, natural.

    • @azlondon
      @azlondon 21 день назад

      @ It’s the fact she called herself ‘ridiculously’ beautiful. Who does she think she is to call herself that, lol… delusional and narcissistic.

  • @dashunchik8420
    @dashunchik8420 2 месяца назад +64

    why aren't you married to a billionaire though?

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 2 месяца назад +13

      Ouch!

    • @ayintovah3132
      @ayintovah3132 2 месяца назад +11

      Exactly 🤷‍♀️

    • @ml0270
      @ml0270 2 месяца назад +26

      She might attract attention from older men through sex, but that doesn't automatically qualify her as the woman he envisions marrying. Because what captures a man's attention is not always the same thing that captures his heart.

    • @91pinklipstick
      @91pinklipstick 2 месяца назад +22

      Bc she was an escort isn't that obvious?

    • @user-lo3tu7s
      @user-lo3tu7s 2 месяца назад +2

      Why should she be married?

  • @Anna-v3y7o
    @Anna-v3y7o Месяц назад +2

    When you are truly kind, you have to protect your energy too, because a lot of people want to use your kindness.

  • @99khalas
    @99khalas 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for your video. It truly resonated with me… five years ago I was diagnosed with chronic anxiety, this “sickness” it destroyed me and I had to build myself from scratch. I still have a long way to go. It was lovely to watch your video, and see I’m on the right path. I’m grateful. 😊

  • @KateM-w8m
    @KateM-w8m 2 месяца назад +45

    She is not at all wrong BUT Let’s go deeper than the superficial money and achievements and unpack profile of men she is discussing.
    The manipulation should be obvious in them seeking to groom control and mold a young woman to their preferences. I’m talking from experience. These people are intelligent enough to leverage everything they have plus life experience against you. Being in an engagement like this completely ruined my life and the power dynamic was traumatizing. Cheating is very common when they make it up to a certain caliber and from myself and hearing from others expect controlling behavior as well. You have to be young, look flawless, complete, be classy, deal with competition. In the worst possible case senario you are just there to attune to their needs, serve as an object and as a utility to do their tasks. In my case it took years before that played out. You are walking into their world which they run. Do not listen to these influencers promoting a “soft life” please. They are not even scratching the surface. Watch Breeny Lees video on this. Nothing is free. You will pay for it in one way or another

    • @gmaxh4549
      @gmaxh4549 2 месяца назад +2

      Is jarring that those behaviours are covered by the the nice stuff

    • @avigailomichael
      @avigailomichael 2 месяца назад +3

      So while you're at it, build yourself a future and get out when you realize that you're with a narcissist. But don't generalize.

    • @afafak3667
      @afafak3667 2 месяца назад

      Do you have any kids?

    • @andreeagherghina2874
      @andreeagherghina2874 2 месяца назад +16

      This is so accurate! The young girl in the video is delusional and doesn't know her value, exactly how wealthy men like their prey! For me if tangible money is not being offered I have no business putting up with wealthy predatory men!

    • @thesevenkingswelove9554
      @thesevenkingswelove9554 2 месяца назад

      Theres absolutely no soft life under these men. Also good luck at age 40, when you grow old and these men want someone else. Theres almost no use for men if they can't give you money and you need to somehow "please" them. If thats the case then why even date?

  • @manifest.artlife
    @manifest.artlife 2 месяца назад +14

    I was married to a multimillionaire and when we first started dating he said his favorite meal was to get subway and fries from McDonald’s. We would get them and go back to his London townhouse and eat them on the couch under a blanket giggling like children. I really loved him ❤🥲. I didn’t really care about the money I liked more that he made me feel safe and made me laugh. When I asked what made him fall love with me he said my sincerity and my passion and he said he could tell I wasn’t from money or the city. He said I felt like home to him and he didn’t have to put on airs around me.

    • @karina_0002
      @karina_0002 2 месяца назад +1

      What happened to him?

    • @manifest.artlife
      @manifest.artlife 2 месяца назад +11

      Our marriage broke down after 12 years. We are still friends and co-parents

  • @akashsxo
    @akashsxo 2 месяца назад +12

    Beauty makes men stare,Behaviour makes them stay

    • @Butterflieslove2
      @Butterflieslove2 27 дней назад

      She didn’t stay actually… they are all her exes😂

    • @akashsxo
      @akashsxo 27 дней назад

      @@Butterflieslove2 because she has multiple options,those aren’t valuable for her as they are not scarce

  • @Chad123-g3d
    @Chad123-g3d 2 месяца назад +11

    She said " ridiculously pretty" 🤡🤡🤡🤡

    • @Jamie-b8j
      @Jamie-b8j Месяц назад +1

      Ridiculously average is more like it! lol

    • @Copy725
      @Copy725 Месяц назад

      Most average woman I have ever seen in my life, she has no facial definition or striking features, looks like someone I would see working at a retail store

    • @Chad123-g3d
      @Chad123-g3d 27 дней назад

      @@Jamie-b8j no,I'm not talking about her.The term itself sounds silly ,what looks " ridiculously pretty"to someone is not the same for someone else

  • @niccolomachiavell
    @niccolomachiavell 2 месяца назад +53

    You live in your own fantasy world.

    • @the1nonlysamira
      @the1nonlysamira 2 месяца назад +10

      I’ve been following her for years and she’s not lying about dating billionaires, her exes are rich, much older than her, divorced and have children, and people were talking shit about her for her dating life, but she’s from a wealthy family herself so why would she date down?

    • @Lm90ss
      @Lm90ss 2 месяца назад +11

      She´s delusional

    • @Lm90ss
      @Lm90ss 2 месяца назад +17

      @@the1nonlysamira Wealthy men perhaps, but not billionaires

    • @the1nonlysamira
      @the1nonlysamira 2 месяца назад

      @@Lm90ss perhaps

    • @CharlesDelarue-d3i
      @CharlesDelarue-d3i 2 месяца назад +1

      When she speaks i know immediatly that’s she lie, because if she was with billionnaire she never ever speak like that. Ever

  • @CorinaGilligan
    @CorinaGilligan Месяц назад +9

    She has no idea how men actually think .

    • @ml0270
      @ml0270 Месяц назад +4

      And that's why she's still single

  • @tonistagram
    @tonistagram Месяц назад +3

    i believe her because even if there are only 3000 billionnaires, the list only includes self made billionnaires. however most billionnaires her age are born billionnaires. i also think she delivers a good message to women and girls seeing the videos she's made and she looks very sincere

  • @ivapetrovska9986
    @ivapetrovska9986 2 месяца назад +8

    Apart from the naivety in some remarks as to what most of billionaires cherish (it's power and control, and not the humble girls with heart) if you want to be happy in life - stay away from the billionaires and millionaires - there are hardly any happy of them !

  • @TheCookie9007
    @TheCookie9007 Месяц назад +3

    Completely agree with you. I am way older than you and i know from experience that your words are pure wisdom. Really admire your honesty . All the best ❤

  • @doroti540
    @doroti540 2 месяца назад +8

    I think everything you said is applicable to healthy relationship with every person, regardless of their status or wallet. Relationships should be build based on mutual respect, genuine interactions and care (that both genders express in different way). This materialistic approach promoted by social media and “men marry bi*ches” concept is literally killing modern relationships😢 If more people would understood your message we wouldn’t have such a big relationship crisis.

  • @shanouboubou
    @shanouboubou 2 месяца назад +13

    These are just advices for a life well-lived full of healthy relationships with others and yourself - no billionnaire necessary:)

  • @giulias.5104
    @giulias.5104 2 месяца назад +9

    You have beauty and they have money, and both of you have what attracts the other. The point is not to be too obnoxious about it.
    Hopefully both of you learn to go deeper and experience real love, which is giving unconditionally.
    The reality of all love relationships is that they are all transactional, more or less, and there is nothing wrong about that, it is a given-take most of the time in this life, it is just designed this way.
    Love relationships should be a way to learn more about ourselves and the other, and how to make our intentions and love more pure.
    That is what is really precious, not just expensive things.

  • @aayushibhattacharya6518
    @aayushibhattacharya6518 2 дня назад +1

    Thank you so much for this valuable content
    So so grateful to come across the video
    Thank you ❤😊

  • @method9557
    @method9557 2 месяца назад +26

    As someone from old money in the billions I can tell you're full of it. If you were the woman of a mans dreams you would not be single. Guys may date you but they do not wife you and that is for a reason.

    • @howtoglowupfast
      @howtoglowupfast 2 месяца назад +11

      As someone from old money, why are you trolling videos about dating up? Hmm?

    • @nastyaswanmind
      @nastyaswanmind  2 месяца назад +12

      As someone who truly loves herself it’s my CHOICE to be single.

    • @method9557
      @method9557 2 месяца назад +13

      @@howtoglowupfast Because I enjoy to call people out on their bs.

    • @method9557
      @method9557 2 месяца назад +27

      @@nastyaswanmind Saying it is your choice to be single might work on your viewers but we both know.

    • @fibonaccil7627
      @fibonaccil7627 Месяц назад

      @@method9557neither you have any proof to backup your pov that she’s not single by choice. Shouldn’t someone who comes from old money be wiser and smarter haha

  • @wanderer410
    @wanderer410 2 месяца назад +16

    As a guy who married a rich woman, it's surprisingly so different what rich women want compared to the men. I had to put in quite an effort but it's been 4 years now and life is blissful and super fun - vacations, shopping and not a thing to worry about. I wish all of you luck, try marrying rich.

    • @firefly1711
      @firefly1711 2 месяца назад

      You sound like a golddigger. I hope you married your rich wife because you love her....not because of her money

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 Месяц назад

      Do explain…

    • @ZhannaBiberman
      @ZhannaBiberman Месяц назад

      @@williamwallace410 yes, please!

    • @exchangAscribe
      @exchangAscribe Месяц назад

      try marrying rich is terrible advice dude

  • @e113jelly6
    @e113jelly6 2 месяца назад +4

    Stop lying to women it doesn’t matter men are going to do what they want regardless of advice u give

  • @michaelba181
    @michaelba181 16 дней назад +2

    Just be available. For a billionaire, time is the most valuable thing, not money. When he needs you, be there.

  • @MaybejustNarbe
    @MaybejustNarbe Месяц назад +2

    Girl Preach!! Honestly all true. I haven’t dated billionaires, but I’ve dated guys with money. They’re just looking for honest women who accept their love, who respect them, who care for them back.
    You hit it on the head with the “little boy” comment. Be his therapist 🙃🙃🙃🙃 safeguard his heart. Be his gentle spot.
    Literally every one of your points is spot on.

  • @jlexusjlexus8214
    @jlexusjlexus8214 Месяц назад +22

    I wouldn't call you "insanely pretty"

    • @Jamie-b8j
      @Jamie-b8j Месяц назад +5

      I think she may need glasses! lol

    • @alexmarques2398
      @alexmarques2398 Месяц назад

      Not bad looks either. And perhaps she was better before. 👀

    • @tretre8717
      @tretre8717 Месяц назад +1

      🤣👍🤣🤣

    • @anakordana7025
      @anakordana7025 Месяц назад +1

      THE HONESTY 🐼.... I WASNT GONNA COMMENT ABOUT THE PRETTINESS BUT HEY 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆

  • @angelinamcgee1933
    @angelinamcgee1933 2 месяца назад +26

    I’m dating a very handsome rich successful man. And I carry all of these qualities. I’ve learned over time being more soft and feminine and always showing him my love. And he loves me just as much.

  • @martynkaa6450
    @martynkaa6450 2 месяца назад +18

    Lmao basically be an absolute doormat for nothing back

    • @martynkaa6450
      @martynkaa6450 2 месяца назад +3

      Also before you stroke your horn I am not hating on you I’m being real

    • @martynkaa6450
      @martynkaa6450 2 месяца назад +10

      And you’re hating on women with actual standards so you’re the one putting tons of women down so apply what you said to yourself

    • @DoveCarr
      @DoveCarr 2 месяца назад +1

      Yup! That’s basically what she’s saying. A lot of these wealthy guys will take, take , take if you allow them and they will go spend the money on a sp*cy worker. I have seen it first hand. Never be a doormat to a wealthy/ rich guy.

  • @lee-sq6ob
    @lee-sq6ob 7 дней назад +1

    "men don't owe you anything" i have never laughed and vomited so hard at the same time