If any of y’all take a girl back after she cheat you, then are the biggest goofy on the planet earth. Not only will she lose all respect for you, but you’ll lose respect for YOURSELF once you reflect on the situation. Enough of this and your self esteem drops. This is how ppl develop depression and not be confident in life. Save yourself the trouble and stop giving attention to women that eyes on other men.
If she cheat on you, block her immediately, you don’t owe her anything, it’s her loss. Love yourself , there plenty other women out here that will recognize a king
I was seeing this girl since a year we are together, we both shared very good loving bond with each other she is very much fond of me❤ but out of nowhere she is talking to a man who is older age (45) for about month now and you know what happened that man purposely shared all his text messages involving kissing talks etc and he wants me to go away from her.. And when I saw the texts it just killed me from inside, should I continue with my gf or not, because after knowing this I'm feeling a bit different for my gf and if I do continue with her I'll loose the self-respect for me in my own eyes.. we both are in our early 20's.. This older man is trying to destroy my relationship.. I'm very confused.. ( Anybody can give their suggestion who are reading )
@@allAdvise727just talk to your girl about it man. Ask her “alright look I’m not gonna sugarcoat shit since we’re both adults here. But if you wanna talk to that fucking guy. I’m leaving. I’m not ever coming back. And you’ll never see my face again” be real with her. Be the man you are. Scare the shit out of her brother. That’s the only way. And she’s gonna say some shit to trick you but you can’t let her get you down like that. “Oh he’s just there I love you more” and if she says something like that just say “oh you do? If you really love me then block him. If he’s just there” and if she drags it on man. Just leave. Don’t play with her in her mind games. You can’t win. Just leave and she’ll realize. Start packing your shit and don’t even say goodbye. You’re in your 20’s man. Finding a girl will be like finding trash on the street.
I dont wish this pain on no man bruh. I was with my girl for 5 years everything was right in my eyes until I started to see her move differently. I knew something was going on but she would call me "insecure". Sure enough I was right. All I got to say is go through your girl phone they a whole different person in there 💯💯
yup and they be talkn shit on yo name behind you too then when you confront umm they sayy babyyy i would never say something like that like hell nah bru i got cheated on yesterday morning i seen proof and everything i clicked on this video cuz i had a rope on my ceiling fan finna hang myself but im straight now fuck that bitch imma find a new one anyway. (it still hurt doe ong)
i was like 3 months with my girl. I was right with her i loved her so much, i didnt even think once to cheat on her even when i had the chance(like 3-4 times) but when someone aproached her she cheated on me without a doubt and she lied to me about thw whole situation(she told me that he found the guy by accident but actually she arranged for them to meet). any advice bro( im so confused...on the one hand i want to move on but on the other hand i still want her i really dont know whats the best for me)
I needed to read this today, man thank you brother for your insight. She ain’t cheat on me but she disrespected me verbally, so I left. God bless you 💯
I just got cheated on by my wife I found out today she was trying to sleep with another guy sending texts saying she loves him and stuff it’s hard to find this out
People only cheat because they think they are better than you. And can get better than you. She is beating against you. She thinks the grass is greener and it NEVER Is .
People say it’s more girls out there the fact is why would I try and get another one when she’s probably in a relationship ready to cheat on another guy, it’s a sick cycle
Thanks. I needed that. I've dating a girl for 8 months. She finally confessed she was with someone else. Well, goodbye then. She says, "I still love you." LOL. Right. I don't you. She revealed her true character....liar and hypocrite. Time to regroup and find a true woman.
To be honest I just got out of a situation where I was with a girl and I knew she had a man she was over at my place every day for five months while he was working she would just make sure she was back home when he got off work but things went south and I ended up telling her boyfriend. And what do you know he kept her I know he probably hates me but I was trying to save him after all this and this might only be a week after telling him but that girl just got away with sleeping with someone else and entertaining someone else for five months and now she gets to go back and live a normal life. Who knows maybe it will catch up to him and he will leave her but damn I couldn’t believe he didn’t leave her right then
Just found tonight had a gut feeling and just confirmed it with my own eyes. She doesn’t know that I figured it out and here I am in an empty parking lot watching RUclips videos not knowing what do now
If they cheat, they lost respect for themselves and you. It ain’t worth trying to fix things. Wether you are just talking or dating, it’s hard to leave when they do something in secret and even worst if you find out when confronting. I make it clear to delete me entirely and never talk to me again cause I would never to that to someone. It’s never the same after, they also try to blame you for THEIR actions. Do not tolerate that. Everyone has a choice and knows what their doing before hand.
Just caught my wife after 10 fucking years using her 3rd shift as a cover. I thought she was going to work all that time. Now nothing but disrespect and ignoring me, while trying to "work" on our marriage. Tonight she's staying at her moms. Last time she did that SHE CHEATED. Leave her of she cheats bruh
When I got cheated on, I just stopped treating her like we were together. I didn’t break up but I was already looking for a new girl while she was apologizing and just kept her around for the box until I can find someone else. It hurts but there’s no point cutting her off immediately and then just being there all alone and depressed. I stopped talking to her all sweet, she got short replies and I only texted if we were on that type of timing. Once I got a new girl, I blocked her on everything and moved on.
My girlfriend cheated on me 3 days ago. I am already a very insecure person who needs a lot of reassurance and security, and her cheating on me really made my self image go down hill even more. I feel unworthy of love, intimacy, care and support. I feel inadequate, I feel like I'm not good enough at all times. It sucks, and the emotional pain is harder to bear than the physical one. I gave my best but I didn't know I was so replaceable. Idk what I'm worth now or maybe I'm just not cut out for love? Haha, sorry for venting in the comments. Ignore it.
bro dont lose hope. i was cheated on aswell and thought i wasnt meant for love, but.. i was wrong. i literally met the right girlfriend like 2 weeks later. you'll find the right girl mate 👊
@@d00p58 Slightly better. I joined the gym a month ago, I am putting in some work, studying too, but it hits me like a wave at times and I still don't deem myself worthy of love or anything else.
Hey bro hope all is well. You will get thru it, I’m a 24 year old dude who never expected to get cheated on & it’s happened twice already. With time your wisdom for how to deal with shit gets alot better and then you’ll feel stronger. Just keep exploring for better. Every day is not good and that’s fine because without bad there would be no good (love or woman, etc)
@@cas1500 Ay man, I hope it gets better for you too. I am in an extremely healthy, serious relationship rn, i healed and THEN started dating, and its going amazingly well man. Just gotta trust the process and improve yourself bro, god himself gives u the best woman. And lifes been amazing man, i realized that even if my shit doesn't work or like, things go bad, that pain just makes me feel alive. Sure it hurts but, i feel the pain, i feel alive, i pick myself up and just focus on myself. Good luck to yall tho and thanks for the well wishes too
In modern times there is no good reason for a man to get too involved with a woman. Getting really involved will probably cause you financial hardship and heartache. Fine to date and have fun with a chick. Don’t get into a committed relationship with her. She will eventually hamstring you!!! Have fun with women but Keep them at arms length at all times! You will be a happier soul!
I needed this. Thankyou! Just found out my man of 9 years has been having a 2 year affair ! Ohhh im so hurt and angry. 3 days i didnt eat couldnt sleep. Im not crying anymore im esting again bit im hurt and angry. Worste pain ever.
Been Cheated On 3 TImes Once She Cheats Bro No Love For Her Anymore No Cap Aint Finna Love A Female Who Dont Love Me Back 💯 If You Take Her Back You A Goofy Ahh
We were middle and high school sweethearts I don't know what happened but around a week before our 5 year anniversary she wanted a "1 month break" a couple of weeks before that she became so distant and just yelled at me about everything, she said I didn't give her enough attention but I was the only one working hard to have us move out from our parents, I had so much trust and respect for her I didn't see how she would control everything in my life and distance me from my friends and family, the night of our anniversary I got access to her tik tok account where she was confessing her feelings to a co worker and thinking back she would always bring him up around me. Anyways I broke up with her last night because of that and she was telling me she broke up with me first, I don't even know if it counts as cheating but it sure hurts because I literally thought she was my everything. I don't know how to process the feelings I have, I feel betrayed and I can't eat or sleep, her parents liked me so much and are angry at her but she just seems so happy to be with that other guy and she is throwing away 5 years for him. Am I in the wrong at all? What should I do to cope?
My problem is that I’m a lil scared to start seriously flirting, like I understand teasing an playfully touching, but I want to smoothly take it to a sexual/freaky level typa flirt. I sometimes catch myself thinking about something to say, but due to a lack of trust and confidence I don’t advance. I feel as if I’m not advancing to get to that level where we both know what’s up, and link. She’s a little more direct than your average woman, but not enough to actually make something happen, and I know she has interest in me and that I need to be more direct, but I just don’t wanna be awkward wit it.
@@thegrimreaper270 No that’s just something to feel better about if this happens to you. But if your concerned about that your best to just play her back how she played you. Don’t catch feelings though. At all.
The girl im with rn texed me saying she was going to a party I wasn't thinking nothing of it because I had trust in har and she said her and her homie started flirting with eachother and started kissing and gave eachother head she said she was faded but shes so so sorry it just hurts so much because I really do love her
Those words of love are empty. She's seeking validation from you, while doing things with other guys. I get your feelings, man, but sometimes, you have to just quickly rip off a leach. When you're done with that, reflect on what kind of lady is high quality, man. For example, someone who doesn't party or drink,or barely uses social media. Think of ways to make a future relationship secure, like by having mutual access to phones, or mutually removing opposite sex friends. Also, she's going to some party, WITHOUT YOU? WHAT? Crazy, dude, don't fumble that mistake again. Wish you the best, have self-respect.
Ngl some niggas that I know what they’ll do is if they girl cheat while they in a relationship they’ll purposely stay wit them jus so they can can cheat on dem back and make sure the girl see dem doin it but that’s lowkey sum devious stuff but some niggas told me it don’t make them feel bad no more about what the girl did. But da easy option is just to leave.
I was dumb enough to think it would never happen to me. Shits crazy bro I really put my faith in this girl and she chewed it up and spit it out. At least she told me so I wouldn’t waste my time but damn this shit suck.
He cheated on me I feel my heart burning not just my heart but my whole chest I can feel that burning because I loved him so sincerely but he was playing
I just found out my BM cheated on me with multiple people, but it wasn’t a surprise, because I knew something was up, for months, and she cried and apologized begging me not to leave her, but the hardest part of letting her go is letting her walk away with my daughter, I know I will never see her the same, so now I have move different and treat her a certain way…like a str8 HOE
I was asking a question yesterday and it turns out she confessed again and put herself in another situation. You right. Someone can love you but not respect you. I’m done with her. Charge it to the game 🔋
100% you need to move on, it isn’t about her respecting you it’s about you respecting yourself. Once you can respect and appreciate yourself you’ll find no reason to be insecure about who you are and find confidence
watching this because i ain’t got nobody to talk to after just finding out she’s been cheating on me since day 1. it’s a hell of a lot to figure this shit out when i was this deep in love. but it really shows how fake some mfs are in your lives
Just see it like it was not a serious relationship,you were wrong that’s all , now get back and just eat her up with no plans for future while you look else where for another forever . Just use her that’s what she’s all good for
November 2nd 2024, For so many days my girl she's not acting the same like she used to. So today I decided to check on her phone and I just found out that my girl has been cheating on me on my back for months. And lookin for answer I came her while she's still sleeping beside me.
when someone cheats on you just stop loving them ? do you just go like: aight fellow human, farewell i wish to never see your face again, switch your emotions off and leave ? is this what happens after? like wtf should you feel if you still love them, wtf should you do if by society standards this relationship is now broken ? what up yo
Man I opened up to her 100% with trust and all. Found out she made out with a a guy at her friend’s wedding early on. That hurt we were already committed. Like a dummy I tried to forgive and work through it. We did and were good. Are Months later she sleep with a girl, and that broke all trust. Left me shattered and unable to trust again.
What to do? Well what I did is I act normal after catching my ex girlfriend while cheating I caught her in the act and she doesn't know I was there. I left the place Quickly and went Home and be cool about it, I caught her kissing the guy while she was putting the guy's hands on her boobies I saw everything. I remain calm and taken a video Footage. Went home and act normal like nothing happened. She got home the day after and I was on my way packed all of my things and made some alibis telling her because of the job why I'm leaving. So she didn't have any suspicion of course she thought I was on my work and it's out of State. A week later that's where she got devastated on what happened. She's being evicted on our apartment, well of course she's not supposed to be worried because I already paid the rent in full including the utilities and cut off the utilities on a certain date and I terminated the lease contract. She was surprised I already moved to Texas but I didn't give her the town. And she was in Boise, ID She called me and cursing at me I was laughing at her and I send her the text message I already broken up with you since the night I left. Below the text message I sent her attachments of the video Footage of her cheating. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Do you know folks what's the scenario on what happened to her? It's like the scenario when Dido sung the Thank you. 🤣🤣🤣 Did I gave her the best day of her life?! 🤣🤣🤣 Lol!!! I just ghosted 👻 her!!
Whoever's girlfriend is cheating on you, dump them, give them a taste of karma, because you, my male friends deserve better than having to take back your cheating girlfriend, find a loyal girl, move on, find your true love and power
its crazy cause i thought this girl was my true love and partner. we were so happy, we had our ups and downs sure. but her whole personality changed within a week and faked sick to go to the dudes house. I just don't get what causes people to do such a thing.
100 millions saying let her go one thought one conscience i love her badly and that how things going must believe doesn't matter you live with someone same with her but not with out regressions remorse and forgive.❤❤❤❤
Man i have no friends, and my girl was my world to me. But i went through her phone and saw her sexting multiple guys and sneaking out at 2-3 am with other guys Saying she didn't do anything bruh My heart is broke after this and i had to look up this topic on YT because I have nobody else. Life's fucking tough man
I'm so sorry my dude :( I just got cheated on too. Knew something was up, drove to her place, walked onto her porch, and I could see clearly through her kitchen window that she was making out with some shirtless guy. It hurts sooo badly to actually witness it....
what if ya have a baby tgt at 18 years old tho . she cheated on me multiple times with multiple men . i did the same after da first time she cheated and we still got tgt. she was pregnant and i didnt care abt what she did cause i cheated back right ?but then it started turning to a regular thing except every time we get back tgt im hoping shyt change . meanwhile she does the same thing while saying she loves me and only me i wasted so much time being there with her spending time thinking its different this time around . when she cheats she says its not good or natural if its not me saying their dick little like if im gonna believe that . but another thing is i want to find another girl but i have a one year old baby already with this girl now. what female my age gon want me and i have a baby mother, i always think abt this .
Where are some good websites or places to get clothes. And what are some good shoes to buy that I need. My lame ahh only wears black sweatpants and a hoodie, and I’m tryna take a step and actually improve my life
She still says she inlove with me but I don’t think I don’t love her anymore but I can’t leave her so I feel like just using her until I find someone else
My girl is crying on the phone to me saying some other girl kissed her and she kissed her back but she didn’t wanna really do It (my girls bi) she’s saying how much she loves me but I Genuinely have no Idea how to react to this. Please? I need help?
Shorty cheated recently. She want me back calling me crying regretting that shit but that shit done tho it don’t feel the same . She found out dude wasn’t shit then came back running to me .
Found out my gf was sending nudes to a bunch of guys over and under 18, Called her out for it and shes begging me to take her back. I feel guilty and upset and i don't know what i should do.
If any of y’all take a girl back after she cheat you, then are the biggest goofy on the planet earth. Not only will she lose all respect for you, but you’ll lose respect for YOURSELF once you reflect on the situation. Enough of this and your self esteem drops. This is how ppl develop depression and not be confident in life. Save yourself the trouble and stop giving attention to women that eyes on other men.
oh stfu don’t cal them goofy it’s hard to get over someone when u been with them so long and evolved to whole world over them
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7:10 what it means « I will probably get the cheeks if I can» ? Is it having sex?
@@cedricpapy134 yes
Nailed it
If she cheat on you, block her immediately, you don’t owe her anything, it’s her loss. Love yourself , there plenty other women out here that will recognize a king
amen bro ds is mo than true and thank you for ds comment
I was seeing this girl since a year we are together, we both shared very good loving bond with each other she is very much fond of me❤ but out of nowhere she is talking to a man who is older age (45) for about month now and you know what happened that man purposely shared all his text messages involving kissing talks etc and he wants me to go away from her.. And when I saw the texts it just killed me from inside, should I continue with my gf or not, because after knowing this I'm feeling a bit different for my gf and if I do continue with her I'll loose the self-respect for me in my own eyes.. we both are in our early 20's..
This older man is trying to destroy my relationship.. I'm very confused..
( Anybody can give their suggestion who are reading )
Her loss like drake? 😂
@@allAdvise727just talk to your girl about it man. Ask her “alright look I’m not gonna sugarcoat shit since we’re both adults here. But if you wanna talk to that fucking guy. I’m leaving. I’m not ever coming back. And you’ll never see my face again” be real with her. Be the man you are. Scare the shit out of her brother. That’s the only way. And she’s gonna say some shit to trick you but you can’t let her get you down like that. “Oh he’s just there I love you more” and if she says something like that just say “oh you do? If you really love me then block him. If he’s just there” and if she drags it on man. Just leave. Don’t play with her in her mind games. You can’t win. Just leave and she’ll realize. Start packing your shit and don’t even say goodbye. You’re in your 20’s man. Finding a girl will be like finding trash on the street.
This helped. Thank you
Taking a person back after they cheated on you is like rereading the same book and expecting a different ending.
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It's like eatin them cold, soggy ass McDonald fries the next day
man she was so kind to me, i found out and my heart dropped man. the hardest part is not texting back bro im just sad ash rn dawg
take adv of her, play them harder then they played GET OUT OF UR FEELS!!
yeahh ay im over it now but i realised i for real didnt need no girl
That sound like loser shit , you still want her that's what it sounds like @@momoass2411
I hope your doing well brother
We same situation rn bro
If she cheated on you, Leave her alone and drop her. Never take her back. Women will treat you how you allow them to💯
If she comes asking for you back, then enjoy her for her talents but never fully trust her again.
I dont wish this pain on no man bruh. I was with my girl for 5 years everything was right in my eyes until I started to see her move differently. I knew something was going on but she would call me "insecure". Sure enough I was right. All I got to say is go through your girl phone they a whole different person in there 💯💯
yup and they be talkn shit on yo name behind you too then when you confront umm they sayy babyyy i would never say something like that like hell nah bru i got cheated on yesterday morning i seen proof and everything i clicked on this video cuz i had a rope on my ceiling fan finna hang myself but im straight now fuck that bitch imma find a new one anyway. (it still hurt doe ong)
@@Tweakshit bro exactly, she kept telling me sweet words just to get back together after what she did.
@@Tweakshitsending you hugs bro!
i was like 3 months with my girl. I was right with her i loved her so much, i didnt even think once to cheat on her even when i had the chance(like 3-4 times) but when someone aproached her she cheated on me without a doubt and she lied to me about thw whole situation(she told me that he found the guy by accident but actually she arranged for them to meet). any advice bro( im so confused...on the one hand i want to move on but on the other hand i still want her i really dont know whats the best for me)
Hey man, I hope you’re alright.
There are too many girls out there for you to take her back that’s just how I think, she’s not that unique or one of a kind. It’s all about respect
I needed to read this today, man thank you brother for your insight. She ain’t cheat on me but she disrespected me verbally, so I left. God bless you 💯
Just got cheated on Sunday found out today. Had no one to talk to but thanks man
It’s been tuff for me to mang but we jus gatta keep our heads high gang 🤷
Gaaaaaang, men getting cheated on mens mental health month is wild, guys we gone be alright fam.
What kind of cheating are they saying cheating like fucked or cheating in any way
i did get cheated on, it was horrible, but i gladly found the right person.
I just got cheated on by my wife I found out today she was trying to sleep with another guy sending texts saying she loves him and stuff it’s hard to find this out
People only cheat because they think they are better than you. And can get better than you. She is beating against you. She thinks the grass is greener and it NEVER Is .
People say it’s more girls out there the fact is why would I try and get another one when she’s probably in a relationship ready to cheat on another guy, it’s a sick cycle
Just get cheated on today.. got nobody to talk to .. thanks for the video
My girlfriend confessed to me today that she cheated on months ago because she thought I was also cheating which I never did.......am heart broken
@@godfathermotivations7638 damnn
Hope you are well. I'm here for the same reason. Saw it happen with my own eyes too.
You can tell the brother is having a hard time on this topic...I have to say the advice given is 💯
Youngster you Are 100% right.
When it's your Wife Sometimes it's Not So Easy.
If a girl ask for a break to hook up with some one else just so she can come back later she still don’t respect you.
Thanks. I needed that. I've dating a girl for 8 months. She finally confessed she was with someone else. Well, goodbye then. She says, "I still love you." LOL. Right. I don't you. She revealed her true character....liar and hypocrite. Time to regroup and find a true woman.
Absolutely
Just found out she was cheating tonight 😕
@justauser sorry to hear, man. Hang tough.
To be honest I just got out of a situation where I was with a girl and I knew she had a man she was over at my place every day for five months while he was working she would just make sure she was back home when he got off work but things went south and I ended up telling her boyfriend. And what do you know he kept her I know he probably hates me but I was trying to save him after all this and this might only be a week after telling him but that girl just got away with sleeping with someone else and entertaining someone else for five months and now she gets to go back and live a normal life. Who knows maybe it will catch up to him and he will leave her but damn I couldn’t believe he didn’t leave her right then
Just found tonight had a gut feeling and just confirmed it with my own eyes. She doesn’t know that I figured it out and here I am in an empty parking lot watching RUclips videos not knowing what do now
If they cheat, they lost respect for themselves and you. It ain’t worth trying to fix things. Wether you are just talking or dating, it’s hard to leave when they do something in secret and even worst if you find out when confronting. I make it clear to delete me entirely and never talk to me again cause I would never to that to someone. It’s never the same after, they also try to blame you for THEIR actions. Do not tolerate that. Everyone has a choice and knows what their doing before hand.
thanks man 🙏
Just caught my wife after 10 fucking years using her 3rd shift as a cover. I thought she was going to work all that time. Now nothing but disrespect and ignoring me, while trying to "work" on our marriage. Tonight she's staying at her moms. Last time she did that SHE CHEATED. Leave her of she cheats bruh
bro i completely understand how you feel. I've been dating a girl for 3 years and just found out she's been cheating on me many times
Dude, have you divorced her? Don't let her degrade your self respect, and she clearly is malicious.
When I got cheated on, I just stopped treating her like we were together. I didn’t break up but I was already looking for a new girl while she was apologizing and just kept her around for the box until I can find someone else. It hurts but there’s no point cutting her off immediately and then just being there all alone and depressed. I stopped talking to her all sweet, she got short replies and I only texted if we were on that type of timing. Once I got a new girl, I blocked her on everything and moved on.
Got to pay respect to that. Actually it’s what I don’t get from the video when he says, « she will give you the chicks. » what it means please?
@@cedricpapy134 it means she’ll be down to have sex with you
That is exactly what I’m doing at the present time. It’s not easy to find a good woman at 55 years old
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@@cedricpapy134 he said "cheeks" ; meaning sex
I found my self here after 12 years together , she messed around and now she’s all feeling confident while we “work it out”.
that facts but I am focused on my grind and being a better version of myself before trying to date women 💯💯
Thank you brother.. You are younger men and I respect the advice… this video has made me feel better
cam here just blessin us with this info daily like its nothing
My girlfriend cheated on me 3 days ago. I am already a very insecure person who needs a lot of reassurance and security, and her cheating on me really made my self image go down hill even more. I feel unworthy of love, intimacy, care and support. I feel inadequate, I feel like I'm not good enough at all times. It sucks, and the emotional pain is harder to bear than the physical one. I gave my best but I didn't know I was so replaceable. Idk what I'm worth now or maybe I'm just not cut out for love? Haha, sorry for venting in the comments. Ignore it.
hey bro hope you’re doing well now. just know that you are absolutely worthy of love and are never alone in this.
bro dont lose hope. i was cheated on aswell and thought i wasnt meant for love, but.. i was wrong. i literally met the right girlfriend like 2 weeks later. you'll find the right girl mate 👊
@@d00p58 Slightly better. I joined the gym a month ago, I am putting in some work, studying too, but it hits me like a wave at times and I still don't deem myself worthy of love or anything else.
Hey bro hope all is well. You will get thru it, I’m a 24 year old dude who never expected to get cheated on & it’s happened twice already. With time your wisdom for how to deal with shit gets alot better and then you’ll feel stronger. Just keep exploring for better. Every day is not good and that’s fine because without bad there would be no good (love or woman, etc)
@@cas1500 Ay man, I hope it gets better for you too. I am in an extremely healthy, serious relationship rn, i healed and THEN started dating, and its going amazingly well man. Just gotta trust the process and improve yourself bro, god himself gives u the best woman. And lifes been amazing man, i realized that even if my shit doesn't work or like, things go bad, that pain just makes me feel alive. Sure it hurts but, i feel the pain, i feel alive, i pick myself up and just focus on myself. Good luck to yall tho and thanks for the well wishes too
In modern times there is no good reason for a man to get too involved with a woman. Getting really involved will probably cause you financial hardship and heartache. Fine to date and have fun with a chick. Don’t get into a committed relationship with her. She will eventually hamstring you!!! Have fun with women but Keep them at arms length at all times! You will be a happier soul!
Hey just saw you posted not long ago, what means she will give you the cheeks?
I needed this. Thankyou! Just found out my man of 9 years has been having a 2 year affair ! Ohhh im so hurt and angry. 3 days i didnt eat couldnt sleep. Im not crying anymore im esting again bit im hurt and angry. Worste pain ever.
Remember, it's never your girl, only your turn.
💯
Been Cheated On 3 TImes Once She Cheats Bro No Love For Her Anymore No Cap Aint Finna Love A Female Who Dont Love Me Back 💯 If You Take Her Back You A Goofy Ahh
U right bout everything, I appreciate this vid bro. Much love
Still can't believe I'm going through all this shit,Damn💔
I listened to you and my you changed my life you helped me me out
Dudes a real G 💪🏻 Self improvement is key
We were middle and high school sweethearts I don't know what happened but around a week before our 5 year anniversary she wanted a "1 month break" a couple of weeks before that she became so distant and just yelled at me about everything, she said I didn't give her enough attention but I was the only one working hard to have us move out from our parents, I had so much trust and respect for her I didn't see how she would control everything in my life and distance me from my friends and family, the night of our anniversary I got access to her tik tok account where she was confessing her feelings to a co worker and thinking back she would always bring him up around me. Anyways I broke up with her last night because of that and she was telling me she broke up with me first, I don't even know if it counts as cheating but it sure hurts because I literally thought she was my everything. I don't know how to process the feelings I have, I feel betrayed and I can't eat or sleep, her parents liked me so much and are angry at her but she just seems so happy to be with that other guy and she is throwing away 5 years for him. Am I in the wrong at all? What should I do to cope?
My problem is that I’m a lil scared to start seriously flirting, like I understand teasing an playfully touching, but I want to smoothly take it to a sexual/freaky level typa flirt. I sometimes catch myself thinking about something to say, but due to a lack of trust and confidence I don’t advance. I feel as if I’m not advancing to get to that level where we both know what’s up, and link. She’s a little more direct than your average woman, but not enough to actually make something happen, and I know she has interest in me and that I need to be more direct, but I just don’t wanna be awkward wit it.
Just try and if the girl don’t have that much experience you good
She asked for a break, fml, I was in my head, going crazy...untill I saw your video
Thank You
I’m glad I seen this video , I needed to hear this
exactly what i needed at this time
No weird shit bro your pfp is sexy asf
I will say it wasn't the same, I trusted her but after she cheated on me I just couldn't trust her. Good thing we broke up a month later
This is straight up facts. You ghost that b, make her pay. But if she never come back and hit u up she never liked you and you gotta be ready for that
So if she comes back u still take her?
@@thegrimreaper270 nooo
@@thegrimreaper270 No that’s just something to feel better about if this happens to you. But if your concerned about that your best to just play her back how she played you. Don’t catch feelings though. At all.
@@cleverasian3375 oka
The girl im with rn texed me saying she was going to a party I wasn't thinking nothing of it because I had trust in har and she said her and her homie started flirting with eachother and started kissing and gave eachother head she said she was faded but shes so so sorry it just hurts so much because I really do love her
A real woman wont go to a party without u😂Even tho u love her do not take her back bro, detach and move on.
Those words of love are empty. She's seeking validation from you, while doing things with other guys. I get your feelings, man, but sometimes, you have to just quickly rip off a leach. When you're done with that, reflect on what kind of lady is high quality, man. For example, someone who doesn't party or drink,or barely uses social media. Think of ways to make a future relationship secure, like by having mutual access to phones, or mutually removing opposite sex friends. Also, she's going to some party, WITHOUT YOU? WHAT? Crazy, dude, don't fumble that mistake again. Wish you the best, have self-respect.
Ngl some niggas that I know what they’ll do is if they girl cheat while they in a relationship they’ll purposely stay wit them jus so they can can cheat on dem back and make sure the girl see dem doin it but that’s lowkey sum devious stuff but some niggas told me it don’t make them feel bad no more about what the girl did. But da easy option is just to leave.
My situationship right now
Did that and it works just cheat back and make them watch 😂
Bro thank you i was pissed now tho after this it is what it is. time for me to shine and leave her behind
I was dumb enough to think it would never happen to me. Shits crazy bro I really put my faith in this girl and she chewed it up and spit it out. At least she told me so I wouldn’t waste my time but damn this shit suck.
He cheated on me I feel my heart burning not just my heart but my whole chest I can feel that burning because I loved him so sincerely but he was playing
I just found out my BM cheated on me with multiple people, but it wasn’t a surprise, because I knew something was up, for months, and she cried and apologized begging me not to leave her, but the hardest part of letting her go is letting her walk away with my daughter, I know I will never see her the same, so now I have move different and treat her a certain way…like a str8 HOE
I was asking a question yesterday and it turns out she confessed again and put herself in another situation.
You right. Someone can love you but not respect you.
I’m done with her.
Charge it to the game 🔋
100% you need to move on, it isn’t about her respecting you it’s about you respecting yourself. Once you can respect and appreciate yourself you’ll find no reason to be insecure about who you are and find confidence
@@connect1876thank you for that
If a chick cheats on me den it's over for her no chances no nothing idgaf how fine she is 💯
watching this because i ain’t got nobody to talk to after just finding out she’s been cheating on me since day 1. it’s a hell of a lot to figure this shit out when i was this deep in love. but it really shows how fake some mfs are in your lives
My baby mama cheated on me , caught her and she was laughing in my face .
Damn fam🤦🏽♂️ mine cheated too I caught her she cried went and got some shrimp and tried to come back but the score 20-1
Mine too we were engaged I blindly trusted her
Just see it like it was not a serious relationship,you were wrong that’s all , now get back and just eat her up with no plans for future while you look else where for another forever . Just use her that’s what she’s all good for
As a girl, this means sm to me
November 2nd 2024,
For so many days my girl she's not acting the same like she used to. So today I decided to check on her phone and I just found out that my girl has been cheating on me on my back for months. And lookin for answer I came her while she's still sleeping beside me.
Just got cheated on last night when she was drunk texting and broke it off after 4 days td due to mental health but it was her ex thanks bro 💯
Subscribed after having a not so Manley moment 😂
Love the real talk.
Subbed and liked fa u said it cause everything u said real asl 💯💯💯
If anyone lies to you, you run for the hills and don’t look back. Also tell no one! Keep your reputation intact and start new.
when someone cheats on you just stop loving them ?
do you just go like: aight fellow human, farewell i wish to never see your face again, switch your emotions off and leave ?
is this what happens after?
like wtf should you feel if you still love them, wtf should you do if by society standards this relationship is now broken ? what up yo
Man I opened up to her 100% with trust and all. Found out she made out with a a guy at her friend’s wedding early on. That hurt we were already committed. Like a dummy I tried to forgive and work through it. We did and were good. Are Months later she sleep with a girl, and that broke all trust. Left me shattered and unable to trust again.
What to do? Well what I did is I act normal after catching my ex girlfriend while cheating I caught her in the act and she doesn't know I was there. I left the place Quickly and went Home and be cool about it, I caught her kissing the guy while she was putting the guy's hands on her boobies I saw everything. I remain calm and taken a video Footage. Went home and act normal like nothing happened. She got home the day after and I was on my way packed all of my things and made some alibis telling her because of the job why I'm leaving. So she didn't have any suspicion of course she thought I was on my work and it's out of State. A week later that's where she got devastated on what happened. She's being evicted on our apartment, well of course she's not supposed to be worried because I already paid the rent in full including the utilities and cut off the utilities on a certain date and I terminated the lease contract. She was surprised I already moved to Texas but I didn't give her the town. And she was in Boise, ID
She called me and cursing at me I was laughing at her and I send her the text message I already broken up with you since the night I left. Below the text message I sent her attachments of the video Footage of her cheating. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Do you know folks what's the scenario on what happened to her? It's like the scenario when Dido sung the Thank you. 🤣🤣🤣 Did I gave her the best day of her life?! 🤣🤣🤣 Lol!!! I just ghosted 👻 her!!
Whoever's girlfriend is cheating on you, dump them, give them a taste of karma, because you, my male friends deserve better than having to take back your cheating girlfriend, find a loyal girl, move on, find your true love and power
its crazy cause i thought this girl was my true love and partner. we were so happy, we had our ups and downs sure. but her whole personality changed within a week and faked sick to go to the dudes house. I just don't get what causes people to do such a thing.
@@braedendabney3934 It's probably interest, she might have not being interested or maybe it just happens, it's a shame, you deserve better
That boy consistent ash😭
Y’all gotta start liking the videos bruh,got cam on this btcs dropping 6 a day type shi like cmon y’all,at least like the vid 💯
My Boyfriend cheated on me multiple times. I don't feel like myself anymore.😢💔
100 millions saying let her go one thought one conscience i love her badly and that how things going must believe doesn't matter you live with someone same with her but not with out regressions remorse and forgive.❤❤❤❤
I’m going through so much I can’t take it bro I might lose the battle
You got this. I’m going through it to bro. Shit sucks.
got cheated on that shit hurts hope i get through it
bro it hurts fr no lie going thru it now still lies about it
When you check that phone then you see the true colors
Appreciate you twin.🤕🤦🏾♂️
Down here in Aus but in a heaps low place ..
thanks for the man 💯
Just stay single all ts ah waste of time
Ong
Man i have no friends, and my girl was my world to me.
But i went through her phone and saw her sexting multiple guys and sneaking out at 2-3 am with other guys
Saying she didn't do anything bruh
My heart is broke after this and i had to look up this topic on YT because I have nobody else.
Life's fucking tough man
I'm so sorry my dude :( I just got cheated on too. Knew something was up, drove to her place, walked onto her porch, and I could see clearly through her kitchen window that she was making out with some shirtless guy. It hurts sooo badly to actually witness it....
I needed to hear this❤
what if ya have a baby tgt at 18 years old tho . she cheated on me multiple times with multiple men . i did the same after da first time she cheated and we still got tgt. she was pregnant and i didnt care abt what she did cause i cheated back right ?but then it started turning to a regular thing except every time we get back tgt im hoping shyt change . meanwhile she does the same thing while saying she loves me and only me i wasted so much time being there with her spending time thinking its different this time around . when she cheats she says its not good or natural if its not me saying their dick little like if im gonna believe that . but another thing is i want to find another girl but i have a one year old baby already with this girl now. what female my age gon want me and i have a baby mother, i always think abt this .
Man thanks to everyone In the comments ain't even have to watch the video
Where are some good websites or places to get clothes. And what are some good shoes to buy that I need. My lame ahh only wears black sweatpants and a hoodie, and I’m tryna take a step and actually improve my life
The hard part I'm finding is having a kid with her and tryna navigate that even though I want nothing to do with her
Whats the best spots to take her on a date
had to sub on my second account but thank u man, i needed this. even if i dont listen
She still says she inlove with me but I don’t think I don’t love her anymore but I can’t leave her so I feel like just using her until I find someone else
I feel sorry for myself and everyone who's watching this on need to hear it its not easy thing
I got my ex to cheat on the person she cheated on me with then never talked to her again lol
if a girl cheat on you, make her think you forgive her then when she least expect it; CHEAT ON HER
No bro just don’t take her back
That’s some bad advice ngl
Nah cause she’ll win in the end best thing to do is walk away act like you don’t care deep down you do but hold it in and she’ll regret it
@@DhdjdjsjdjsjkExactly
Kinda lit bro 😂
Great advice
Best advice
my bum ass just relised i dont need her, we got 1mil+ women in the world
I need someone to talk to pls someone help me
My girl is crying on the phone to me saying some other girl kissed her and she kissed her back but she didn’t wanna really do
It (my girls bi) she’s saying how much she loves me but I
Genuinely have no
Idea how to react to this. Please? I need help?
My babymomma cheated on me a month after she pushed out my baby and I have no choice to communicate with her to see baby and I hate it
My girlfriend cheated on me and I don’t give a shit
She’s at my door feeling remorse and I only took her and used her she got tired and left
That's how I am with my cheating ex. I don't have sex with her for a whole year. And I never will again. We can be friends ...but nah ...that's a wrap
Shorty cheated recently. She want me back calling me crying regretting that shit but that shit done tho it don’t feel the same . She found out dude wasn’t shit then came back running to me .
The worst part about this video is that there are over 46K views indicating that at least 46 thousand people had this happen to them.
Found out my gf was sending nudes to a bunch of guys over and under 18, Called her out for it and shes begging me to take her back. I feel guilty and upset and i don't know what i should do.
Thank you.
What if it's the man who cheated on the women. She never cheated. After 8 years he decides to leave you for an older women. He was cheat on her with.
aye cam, how do i know if my girl finna cheat on me? she don't show no signs but i have the gut feelings she can't be trusted long term
This helped me out thank you
Thought im gonna marry her guess im not